Summer Plans Cancelled
Summer camp? Cancelled.
Graduation? A no-go.
Dance recital? Now a living room show.
Lacrosse season? Gone.
Freshman year’s final semester is spent in a high school bedroom.
The amusement park’s last day of school? Cancelled.
Spring break? Not happening.
Birthday celebrations? All cancelled.
Beaches and pools? Closed for the summer.
It’s been ten weeks without seeing immediate family. Visits? Cancelled.
Teenage Concerns
“Will I even have a senior year?”
“What’s left to look forward to?”
“I hate this! I found a school I love, and now I’m stuck at home.”
I feel you, kid. I really do.
Parental Struggles
As parents, we all cope with this situation in our own ways, experiencing a range of emotions day by day. The most challenging realization, especially since we aren’t currently facing a health or financial crisis (thankfully), is my inability to make everything better.
I’m usually the one who provides comfort—whether it’s Band-Aids, homemade cookies, snuggles, or wise words from my mom or grandmother. But this time, I feel at a loss. My teens are accepting of the shelter-at-home guidelines, they wear masks without fuss, and they understand the necessity of our current situation.
I’ve tried to distract them with nostalgic board games, paint-by-numbers, and binge-watching Disney+ and Netflix. We’ve had themed family dinners and even hosted Zoom calls with grandparents. Thankfully, my partner is outdoing me with TikToks, bringing some levity to our days.
Lingering Sadness
Yet, despite my efforts, sadness lingers in our household. I can’t fix this. We’re all experiencing grief over different losses.
In moments of solitude or when I chat with my sister, I admit the harsh reality: this situation is tough. We’re bored and frustrated, and while I feel guilty for finding some silver linings, I also recognize the importance of being grateful for family time. However, it doesn’t always bring me joy, which adds to my guilt.
“I hope your senior year turns out amazing, no matter what it looks like.”
“Next year, I hope you’re just as excited for summer camp.”
“I’m grateful to have you home from college for a little while longer.”
Despite knowing others have it worse, my teens are struggling, and it hurts. But we will persevere. We may not be heroes or frontline workers, but we’re doing our part, and this challenging time will eventually pass. We hold onto the hope of brighter days ahead.
Further Reading
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Summary
In these challenging times, parents face the emotional burden of helping their teens navigate feelings of loss and uncertainty. Despite efforts to distract and engage them, the pervasive sadness remains, highlighting the need for understanding and support as we all hope for a brighter future.
Keyphrase: Navigating Teen Challenges
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