Today is a milestone for my kindergartner—her 100th day of school. “You can create a special shirt for your child to wear!” the teachers encouraged. “We’re in need of more classroom helpers!” the room parent chimed in. “Can you join us for lunch today?” my daughter asked, her eyes sparkling with excitement.
“No,” “no,” and “no” was my reluctant answer. Despite my eagerness to be involved, the chaos of the morning routine—packing lunches, changing diapers, and brushing teeth—left me scrambling. “I could come, but I’d have to bring the baby along, and I’m not sure how helpful that would be.” I offered, “Not today, but I can try later this week?”
As I wandered the school halls, I spotted other moms capturing joyful moments, posting pictures online, and cheering their kids through a giant “100” banner. Guilt washed over me. Should I turn back? What if this was a day she would remember forever? I could always grab groceries later. I could carry the baby. I could tidy up if I hurried.
While the baby dozed on my lap—because, of course, that’s the only place he would sleep—I received a notification that caught my attention. Just what I needed: a reminder that the shirt doesn’t matter, the long drive can wait, and the moments we share together are what truly count.
“Look at this!” one mom exclaimed, sharing a photo. “Couldn’t be cuter than that!” She was one of those moms who seemingly does it all—crafting shirts, snapping photos, and volunteering her time. Yet, even with her busy schedule, she took a moment to acknowledge the effort behind my quiet day.
There we were—just a plain blue uniform, a “maybe later” on my mind, a large sign celebrating the 100th day of school, and a subtle reminder of love and effort shining through. We are a community of diverse women, united in motherhood, proud of our unique journeys.
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This article was originally published on March 10, 2020.
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In summary, the 100th day of school became a poignant reminder of the importance of connection and the realities of motherhood. It highlighted that, while we may not always hit every mark perfectly, the love and effort we put in are what truly matter.
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