We’ve all been there—caught up in the whirlwind of “Supermom Syndrome,” where the pressure to do it all leaves us feeling utterly drained. Despite the outdated and somewhat sexist label, the struggle is real. Society often pushes the idea that we should be able to juggle everything, but let’s face it: we can’t.
Thankfully, more of us are rejecting these unrealistic expectations. While self-improvement is fantastic, it often comes with a side of perfectionism that can be suffocating. We add endless tasks to our to-do lists, forgetting that for every new goal, something else must give way. It’s essential to say “no” to what doesn’t resonate with us so we can wholeheartedly embrace what does.
As the new year approaches, many are buzzing with ambitious resolutions—morning meditations, marathon training, and the commitment to whip up healthy meals every night. But let’s be honest. For me, that’s a big “nope.”
That’s why I’m loving the concept of creating an “I Don’t” list, inspired by a brilliant article by Maya Thornton on Home Insemination Kit that has been resonating with many. “Every one of us has an ‘I Don’t’ list,” she states. “These lists vary from person to person, and prioritizing can get brutally honest.”
Maya also highlights that some items on our “I Don’t” lists stem from our privileges. This is a valid point. Each list is personal; there’s no judgment here. It’s about finding balance in our lives without measuring ourselves against others.
So, inspired by Maya and my own inclination towards anti-resolutions, here’s my “I Don’t” list, and I encourage you to create yours too:
- I don’t get a full eight hours of sleep (or even seven, for that matter).
- I don’t meal plan.
- I don’t prepare home-cooked meals most nights.
- I don’t use nightly skincare products. (Most nights, I might skip washing my face altogether.)
- I don’t floss every night.
- I don’t meditate.
- I don’t stretch or do yoga.
- I don’t oversee my kids’ homework.
- I don’t volunteer at my kids’ school.
- I don’t engage in Facebook groups.
- I don’t maintain a balanced diet. (I’m a carb-loving vegetarian!)
- I don’t “network.”
- I don’t craft with my kids.
- I don’t remember birthdays until it’s too late to call.
There you have it—my “I Don’t” list! Sure, I could create a lengthy “I Do” list highlighting all the things I accomplish by sidestepping these overwhelming tasks, but honestly, that’s not necessary. We all know we’re doing a multitude of things already. Instead, let’s embrace the freedom to step back from what stresses us out.
Perhaps this year, consider swapping out traditional New Year’s resolutions for your own “I Don’t” list. Embrace it, celebrate it, and let go of any guilt associated with choosing to do less. I certainly do!
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In summary, creating an “I Don’t” list can empower us to prioritize our well-being and focus on what truly matters. Instead of feeling overwhelmed by unrealistic expectations, let’s celebrate our choices and embrace our unique paths.
Keyphrase: I Don’t List for Moms
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