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On what was meant to be a joyful day, 6-year-old Ethan’s last day of kindergarten turned tragic when his family celebrated with a swim in their backyard pool. Having learned to swim at age four, Ethan was still apprehensive about putting his face underwater, so he opted to wear a swim mask. His mother, Karen Miller, shared with Home Insemination Kit that although two adults were supervising Ethan, they were unaware when his mask filled with water, hindering his ability to breathe and leading to his drowning in mere minutes. Karen believes he panicked and couldn’t remove the mask quickly enough (drowning can occur within 20-60 seconds).
“Given Ethan’s fear of submerging his face, the mask seemed like a good solution,” Karen explains. “However, this was a serious misjudgment. Swim instructors and parents need to be educated about this. It’s unrealistic to expect a young child to handle a flooded mask or to be comfortable removing it underwater.”
For many years, Karen struggled to discuss the details of Ethan’s death publicly. Now, she is dedicated to alerting other parents to the potential dangers associated with swim masks, as well as the fact that many are unaware of this risk. “Ethan died 15 years ago on June 23, 2003,” she recalls. “It took me years to open up about it, and I realized that mask safety is rarely addressed. I find solace in the idea that things happen when they’re meant to.”
The pain Karen has endured is unimaginable, yet her efforts to raise awareness could very well save lives. She has recently collaborated with the National Drowning Prevention Alliance to create a video highlighting the risks of drowning while using a swim mask. This important video will be showcased at the upcoming National Drowning Prevention Alliance Convention in New Orleans on April 17th.
The video is essential viewing for parents, swim coaches, and anyone responsible for young children. Dr. Mark Roberts, chairman of the International Drowning Prevention Alliance, emphasizes some fundamental guidelines for preventing drowning, particularly regarding swim masks:
- Enroll your child in swim lessons through accredited programs like the YMCA or American Red Cross.
- Ensure your child is comfortable in the water before introducing a swim mask; it should not be used to help them adjust.
- Do not rely on flotation devices for safety.
- Always practice “touch supervision,” which means being close enough to physically assist your child if necessary.
- Learn to identify the signs of drowning and know CPR.
- Avoid letting your child dive headfirst while wearing a mask or goggles.
In addition to professional swim lessons, the Academy of American Pediatrics recommends starting swim instruction as early as ages 1 to 3, since drowning is a leading cause of injury-related death in this age group.
After hearing Karen’s experience, I am reconsidering my own children’s use of swim masks. While they can be beneficial, they must fit properly, and both the parent and child need to be educated on their safe use.
In the National Drowning Prevention Alliance video, diving instructor Sara Johnson discusses swim mask safety. Here are her key tips:
- Choose a mask made of silicone; cheaper options are often made from PVC, which can leak.
- A well-fitting mask should pass the “flower sniff” test; if you can inhale without air coming through, it indicates a proper seal.
- Ensure the mask isn’t too tight or too loose, and check that it stays in place when you move your head.
As Karen poignantly states, “Masks are not toys. They can be safe, but children must be prepared to handle a flooded mask and be comfortable swimming without anything obstructing their faces.”
This summer, Ethan would have turned 22. Karen’s mission is not only to prevent similar tragedies but also to honor her beloved son. Her advocacy is truly a testament to a mother’s strength and resilience. Although nothing can bring Ethan back, it is hoped that Karen finds some comfort in knowing her efforts could save lives.
In summary, Karen Miller’s tragic experience serves as a crucial reminder about the risks associated with swim masks for young children. With proper education and awareness, we can help prevent future accidents and ensure safer swimming experiences for all kids.
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