Let’s get real for a moment. I’ve had my fair share of being labeled a “crazy lady” more times than I can count. Unfortunately, many women have faced this same stigma. I might own being a bit feisty at times, but I refuse to accept being called crazy for simply expressing my emotions—whether that’s anger, frustration, or sadness—especially when those feelings don’t fit some arbitrary standard set by men.
So, let’s put this out there: Stop calling women crazy. It’s neither charming nor amusing, and most importantly, it’s just plain wrong.
What some may interpret as craziness is just a woman exuding confidence. Women often find themselves in situations where they are expected to remain silent. Whether it’s during a major sports event or a critical political discussion, if a woman voices an opinion that diverges from the mainstream, she may be dismissed as “crazy.” Here’s the truth: it takes immense courage to speak up in a world where women are frequently mansplained, interrupted, or ignored. If you see her as crazy, perhaps you’re simply struggling to handle her strength and determination.
What you might label as crazy could actually be a woman’s passionate advocacy. Think about the fierce individuals who tirelessly advocate for justice and equality—those who organize rallies, contact their representatives, and stand up for marginalized communities at every opportunity. Some might call her crazy for her relentless dedication, but in reality, she is bold and motivated. She’s a warrior for change, and her resolve should serve as an inspiration rather than a punchline.
In many cases, what you perceive as craziness is merely a woman being vocal. Yes, sometimes women do raise their voices, and while some find that irritating or unacceptable, it’s often the only way to ensure they’re heard. Given the current climate, women frequently have to amplify their voices to cut through the noise, and if that means raising their volume to grab your attention, so be it.
It’s disheartening to witness our experiences invalidated by the label “crazy”—especially when it’s often paired with outdated notions related to emotions, hormones, or even menstrual cycles. We need to put a stop to this. Women are choosing to assert themselves, and if that means being loud to ensure you listen, then that’s what we will do.
And, honestly, it’s 2023. If your most insightful comment about a woman is based on her menstrual cycle, it’s time to rethink your approach. Such remarks are not only immature but also demonstrate a complete lack of respect. A woman’s body and health are not your conversation topics unless you’re her healthcare provider.
Feel free to call us confident, strong, passionate, or brave. You can describe us as loud or persistent, if you must. Just stop labeling us as crazy every time we challenge your comfort with our strength and brilliance.
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In summary, it’s time to retire the label of “crazy” when referring to women. Instead, let’s recognize confidence, passion, and vocal advocacy for what they truly are—strengths that deserve respect.