Dear Dad,
Though we were strangers in a crowded venue, the hurtful words you directed at your daughter have lingered in my mind since that night. For that, I owe you a peculiar kind of gratitude.
I was seated next to a close friend, enjoying the anticipation of the concert when I heard your daughter, a few rows behind us, trying to lighten the mood with a joke. I chuckled quietly, appreciating her humor. But then, your response shattered that moment: “You are such a retard.” My heart sank.
You may never grasp the pain those words caused. That’s understandable. However, I feel compelled to share that such language is utterly unacceptable. The casual use of that word often goes unnoticed, but it impacts many, especially those of us with special needs children.
As a society, we’ve all heard this term tossed around—myself included in the past. Yet, as we raise the next generation in a world that can be harsh and judgmental, it’s our responsibility to teach them that these words carry weight and should not be used lightly.
I sincerely hope you understand that your words likely hurt your daughter deeply. If she becomes a mother someday, I hope her children are neurotypical, as children with special needs deserve a grandfather who embraces them without prejudice. Should you be fortunate to have a special needs grandchild, I hope you can accept them wholeheartedly and join the fight against the derogatory “R” word.
Sincerely,
A concert-goer, special needs advocate, and writer.
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In summary, we must strive to foster kindness and understanding in our language, especially around our children. Let’s work together to create a more compassionate world.
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