During a recent outing with friends at a local eatery, I couldn’t help but notice the hostess’s striking complexion. It was the kind of radiant, flawless skin that makes you momentarily forget about your own skincare routine. Of course, I didn’t say anything to her at the time—wouldn’t that be a bit strange?—so I simply thanked her for our seating.
After enjoying a couple of martinis with dinner, I found myself feeling a bit bolder. As we were leaving, I decided to stop at the hostess station. “Excuse me,” I said, “I just wanted to let you know how beautiful your skin is. It looks like something right out of a magazine!” Her face lit up, and she touched her cheek in surprise. “Thank you so much!” she replied, her eyes sparkling with delight. As I walked out, she was still wearing that bright smile.
It made me consider whether she hears compliments like that often or if it was just what she needed to brighten her evening. Regardless, it was a positive experience for both of us. Receiving compliments feels great, but giving them can be just as rewarding. This made me ponder: why do we often hold back on sharing kind words?
I completely understand why we avoid saying negative things to others—confrontations can arise, and who wants that? But what do we gain by keeping our compliments to ourselves? Why not just let them out, especially when we’ve enjoyed a drink or two?
For a perfect example, think about the women’s restroom at a bar. Stand by the mirror long enough, and you’re bound to hear enthusiastic remarks like “I LOVE your outfit!” or “Your makeup is flawless!” It seems that liquid courage encourages us to express our admiration. Yet, the only real difference between complimenting someone in a restroom and doing so in a grocery store is the presence of alcohol. The compliments come from a genuine place, and we have nothing to lose by sharing them.
Imagine if we voiced every kind thought we had about someone. I often find myself admiring random strangers—like the mother in front of me at the checkout line with the perfect messy bun or the teenager who is so kind to their younger sibling. But for some reason, I don’t speak up. What’s the worst that could happen? I doubt anyone would respond with, “Ew! Get away, you creep!” If they do, that’s their issue, not mine.
So, I’ve made it my mission to start expressing my thoughts. If I admire your shoes while we’re standing in the frozen food section, I’m going to let you know. You’ll appreciate the compliment, I’ll feel good for lifting your spirits, and most importantly, our children are observing how we treat others. They may miss the love-fest in a bar bathroom, but they will certainly notice how we engage with people in everyday life. By spreading compliments like a joyful drunk girl, we’re not only brightening someone’s day but also teaching our children the value of kindness.
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In summary, let’s embrace the power of compliments. They can uplift others, enrich our own experiences, and set a positive example for the next generation.
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