It’s hard to believe that just a few years ago I was writing about your first steps into high school. Back then, I offered you advice like staying organized, participating in school events, and seeking help when you needed it. I encouraged you to get to know your principal (which you did), to surround yourself with good people (check), and to make regular visits to the school library (let’s not discuss that). It truly feels like time has flown by.
If I could have pressed pause on those years, I would have done it in a heartbeat just to keep you my little one forever. Now, we stand on the brink of a significant milestone, one that signifies not just growing up but stepping into adulthood. Graduation marks a bold declaration: “Here I am, world! I’m prepared for what lies ahead. It’s time for new adventures, and I’m ready to show you what I can do.”
For parents, this moment is filled with both pride and bittersweet emotions. Our minds brim with excitement for your future, while our hearts bear a heavy weight. We recognize the importance of this transition, and we understand what it entails.
I know I was often overly curious during your childhood. I apologize for that. It stemmed from my deep desire to connect with you. You are my everything, and I care about every aspect of your life. But I learned that sometimes you didn’t want me to fix your problems; you simply needed me to listen. So, I listened—and in doing so, I discovered how exceptional you truly are.
You’ve cultivated a remarkable sense of morality. You treat everyone with kindness, value a firm handshake, and remember names. You’ve established boundaries while still enjoying time with friends. You understand the importance of humility and how to stretch every dollar. You’ve learned that spending time with family is invaluable. You’ve realized that holding onto anger doesn’t help; forgiveness does. You’ve shown me that you are wiser than I could have imagined in many areas.
High school wasn’t a walk in the park. Let’s be honest—it had its share of struggles. You entered as one person and are leaving as someone entirely different, with wounds that demonstrate your journey. Scars, after all, are reminders of battles fought and won. Everyone leaves high school with some scars, and I hope you recognize that those painful moments are what make you human and resilient. They have taught you about your strengths and inner toughness.
Thank you for allowing me to be part of your journey and for forgiving my missteps along the way. There were times I wanted to step in and rescue you during your struggles, but I held back. In retrospect, those challenging moments were where your growth truly flourished. You learned the essence of genuine friendship and chose to follow your own path, even if it meant missing out on certain social events. You prioritized your character over your reputation and made the choice to spend time with us instead of giving in to peer pressure. Those moments meant the world to us.
Before you embark on this next chapter (sniff!), here are a few final words of wisdom:
- Remember, even in tough times, your voice matters. You’re now eligible to vote—make it count.
- The quickest route isn’t always the best; hard work pays off. Be ready to put in the effort.
- Always remember, you have choices in every situation.
- Be brave in expressing your feelings—say “I’m sorry,” “I love you,” or “I forgive you.”
- Spend within your means. Being broke during college is a rite of passage, so learn to love simple meals like Top Ramen.
- True success isn’t defined by your job or income but by who you are and how you treat others.
- Show gratitude to those who have supported you along the way. Help others up rather than looking down on them.
- Confidence combined with a desire to improve the world can be incredibly powerful.
- Surround yourself with positive influences and avoid those who bring you down.
- Life won’t always go as planned. Embrace the highs and seek help through the lows.
- Lastly, remember that home is always a safe haven, even if your sibling has taken over your closet.
I’m ready to step back and witness your life unfold. This will be my biggest change yet, but I believe in you and your ability to embrace whatever life brings. I trust you know to reach out to your Aunt Sarah, not me, if you find yourself in need of financial guidance.
The future may be uncertain, but I believe it holds incredible possibilities for you. You will continue to grow and apply the lessons learned throughout your childhood. You’ll contribute positively to your community and stay true to your values, treating others with kindness. This will lead you to success, however you choose to define it.
Good kids still exist, and I’m grateful you are one of them. Thank you for your perseverance and for being your remarkable self. Enjoy your graduation, and yes, please let me capture every moment—I know it might annoy you, but it’s a parent’s duty. Some things will never change.
Love you to the moon and back,
Mom
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