Let me be honest: this past weekend was a bit of a disaster for me. Picture this: spring break, an eight-hour car ride, and I completely lost my cool. Not exactly my best moment.
For many parents and educators, spring break is supposed to be a time to relax and bond with family. However, for a lot of moms, it turns into an endless cycle of packing, unpacking, laundry, and preparing the kids to transition back to their routines. I found myself in full-on chaos mode, feeling overwhelmed.
For months now, I’ve been juggling parenting, a demanding job, maintaining our home, growing my website (essentially two full-time jobs), managing my son’s special needs, attending to my health, and navigating my husband’s and my opposite work schedules. My mind is in a constant state of anxiety, leaving me restless at night. All of this has made me acutely aware of one thing: I feel like I’m failing.
Then it all culminated in that car ride through the mountains of West Virginia. I broke down. As I mentally crafted a never-ending to-do list, I suddenly paused. “Honey, I can’t keep this up anymore,” I confessed to my husband, tears welling in my eyes. He was taken aback.
We had a heartfelt conversation. I finally opened up about everything he was unaware of. Instead of trying to tackle yet another list of tasks, I’ve started to embrace the power of saying no.
- No, I can’t contribute to the staff potluck next week.
- No, I can’t be there for your event next weekend.
- No, we won’t be chaperoning prom this year.
- No, I can’t take on more tutoring after school.
This last one especially weighs heavy on my heart, but I have to prioritize my well-being.
This journey is challenging and often feels wrong, but it’s vital for our health. Moms are often seen as superheroes, accomplishing the impossible. Yet, we must recognize that we cannot do it all. In truth, it’s not ours to do.
The laundry will wait. I can choose to take a walk during lunch instead of spending hours at the gym. My kids won’t suffer if I tuck them into bed instead of letting anxiety keep me awake. And my husband is ready to help if I just ask.
I’m at the beginning of learning this simple yet daunting two-letter word that often comes with guilt and shame. If I keep saying yes to everything that clutters my life and drains my joy, I will only run myself into the ground, negatively affecting my family and myself.
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In summary, embracing the word “no” can help us prioritize what truly matters and alleviate some of the burdens we carry as parents.
Keyphrase: learning to say no
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