Dear friends who are fortunate enough to still have their mothers,
It struck like a thief in the night—ten months from the moment she received her diagnosis to the day we said our final goodbyes. Cancer has a cruel way of stealing not just health, but also time, leaving families reeling from its harsh realities. One moment we’re planning for the future, and the next, we’re in the thick of a battle, ultimately facing a heartbreaking farewell.
I never envisioned losing my mom in this manner or so early in life. There was no way to prepare for the whirlwind that swept her away before I could fully grasp what was transpiring. Yet, despite the sorrow, my faith gives me peace and a glimmer of hope. But this Mother’s Day presents a new reality—I find myself navigating the world as a mother without my own.
I’ll receive love, thoughtful cards, and gifts, but the one thing I can’t do is shower my mom with affection or express my gratitude for everything she taught me about motherhood—both the good and the challenging. I can’t share how deeply she influenced my life as a mother, wife, and woman.
So, dear friends, whether your relationship with your mother is close or filled with distance, take a moment this week to reach out.
If you share a mutual understanding or find yourselves at odds, look her in the eyes and tell her she is cherished.
If she has showered you with love or struggled to show affection, express your appreciation and let your words or hugs linger.
Whether she’s been your inspiration or a cautionary tale, let her know the lessons you’ve learned from her.
Regardless of whether she’s been a near-perfect mother or faced challenges, she’s still here—her presence holds the potential for a renewed connection.
Call her, embrace her, and envelop her with your love, even if it’s complicated. Seek reconciliation if there’s distance, strive for compromise if indifference reigns, dedicate time if you’re busy, and offer affection if it doesn’t come easily. Extend generous love, even if it’s already a regular part of your relationship.
Just last year, I couldn’t have imagined spending Mother’s Day without my mom. Please, don’t let another moment pass without connecting with yours.
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Summary
This heartfelt message encourages friends with living mothers to cherish their relationships, reminding them to express love, gratitude, and the lessons learned. Reflecting on personal loss, the author emphasizes the importance of connection and reconciliation, especially during Mother’s Day.