If you could take a peek inside my uterus, you’d probably see it painted blue and sporting a beard. Why? Because this little factory exclusively produces boys. Having four of them has been quite the cosmic joke, especially since I used to be all about the girly things—makeup, cute shoes, and avoiding anything that might ruin my manicure. But motherhood to boys changes you in unexpected ways. You don’t have to abandon your feminine side; in fact, holding onto it might be more crucial than ever. Here’s a list of what to expect if you’re welcoming a little boy into your life.
1. Embrace Bath Time
When I say “bath time,” I don’t mean a luxurious soak for yourself. No, you’ll need to become quite the expert in giving baths because boys seem to attract dirt like magnets. Be ready for splashes, the unmistakable wet-dog aroma, and a bathroom floor that resembles a water park after each bath. And once they’re old enough to shower alone? You’ll still have to remind them to use soap everywhere or risk the smell lingering around.
2. Find Humor in Farts
Boys and their fascination with toilet humor can be a challenge. Luckily, I’ve always had a knack for laughing at the absurdities of life, which has made this easier. Instead of trying to suppress their giggles over flatulence, learn to laugh along. Just set some ground rules for when and where it’s appropriate to let one rip—like avoiding it during church or at dinner.
3. Toilet Training Battles
From the moment I found out I was having a boy, I was determined to teach him toilet etiquette. But let’s be real: it’s an uphill battle. One might remember to put the seat down, while another forgets to flush. And don’t even get me started on the toilet paper mishaps. I find myself constantly reminding them to aim and clean up after themselves, which can be exhausting.
4. Adjust Your Safety Standards
No one should call child protective services on me, but when it comes to boys, you have to loosen your grip a bit. Forget hovering over them while they play. Boys are inherently adventurous—they jump, climb, and tumble all over the place. They’ll explore the world with curiosity, and sometimes that includes tasting things they shouldn’t. Stock up on Band-Aids, and take a deep breath; a little dirt never hurt anyone.
5. Expect Plenty of Drama
People often say boys are less dramatic than girls, but my experience says otherwise. My boys can throw tantrums that rival any soap opera. They can go from laughing to crying over the most trivial issues, like losing a video game. So don’t let anyone convince you that you’re lucky because you have boys; they have their fair share of drama!
6. Prepare for Messes
Messes are just part of life when you have boys. It’s not just toys scattered everywhere; it’s muddy footprints, toothpaste splatters, and the occasional food explosion. No matter how often I remind them to clean up, they seem to have a sixth sense for making a mess. And when friends come over, it’s like a tornado hit the house.
7. Stock Up on Snacks
When they’re babies, it seems like they barely eat, but once they hit a certain age, it’s like they turn into bottomless pits. My eight-year-old can devour a mountain of food and still complain of hunger. Be prepared for constant snacking and a grocery budget that could rival a small country’s.
8. Say Goodbye to Jeans
I still can’t fathom how quickly boys can destroy a sturdy pair of jeans. Denim is supposed to be tough, but it seems to meet its match against the roughhousing and adventures of little boys. You’ll find yourself replacing jeans more often than you’d like.
9. Get Comfortable with Nudity
As soon as they get home, my boys shed their clothes like they’re in a race. They lounge in their underwear or even go completely naked. It’s a whole new level of comfort with nudity that you’ll have to embrace.
10. Brace Yourself for “The Grab”
Lastly, let’s talk about the inevitable grabbing of their anatomy. From the moment they’re born, boys seem unable to keep their hands to themselves. You’ll likely find yourself saying things like “Stop wrapping your penis around your fork.” It’s just a part of life in a house full of boys, and eventually, you’ll learn to tune it out while you tackle the never-ending messes.
In summary, being a mom to boys comes with unique challenges and hilarious moments. From messy bathrooms to unexpected drama, it’s a wild ride filled with laughter and love. If you’re considering bringing a boy into your life, check out resources on home insemination at Make a Mom or learn more about pregnancy through in vitro fertilization.
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