Recently, I was leaving a work function when a young girl approached me, selling her handmade jewelry to help her mom with a phone bill. Feeling generous and in a good mood, I bought a bracelet that caught my eye. On this blue knotted piece of yarn is a single word: FREE. This bracelet symbolizes the newfound liberation I feel after my marriage. It serves as a daily reminder that I’m independent and no longer accountable to anyone. While the divorce process has its challenges, being single also has its advantages. Here are 21 reasons why I cherish my solo journey:
- I Call the Shots
During my marriage, I often deferred to my partner’s preferences, from meal choices to household chores. Now, I relish the freedom to make decisions based solely on my desires. - Food Freedom
I can enjoy my favorite foods, like Ben & Jerry’s ice cream at midnight, without worrying about judgment or relinquishing my cravings for someone else’s tastes. - Financial Independence
With my finances, I no longer dread overspending at places like Costco. I manage my budget, track expenses closely, and my money is mine alone. - No Late-Night Worrying
While loneliness can creep in, I no longer stay up fretting about my partner’s whereabouts. My peace of mind is invaluable. - Less Clutter
Managing a home while working and parenting is tough enough without added mess. I appreciate keeping my space orderly, without someone else’s clutter. - My Schedule, My Plans
Though my free time is limited, I now prioritize my own interests without needing to accommodate anyone else’s agenda. - No Need for Validation
I spent years seeking my partner’s approval, often feeling inadequate. Now, my self-worth is determined by me alone. - Wardrobe Choices
I buy clothes that reflect my style, even if my budget is tight. Dressing for myself feels liberating. - No Criticism
Mistakes are part of life, but I no longer have someone pointing out my flaws or saying, “I told you so.” - Space to Breathe
I enjoy the extra space in my closet and bed. Sleep is better when it’s just me. - TV Time
Once the kids are asleep, the remote is all mine. No more fighting over what to watch! - Holiday Flexibility
When it comes to holidays, I have the choice. I can spend them with my family or take a break when the kids are with their dad. - My Own Pace
I value punctuality and can now move through life without waiting for someone else who doesn’t share my time values. - Dating Possibilities
The world of dating is now open to me. I can explore new connections, even if marriage isn’t on my agenda. - Bedtime is Mine
I set the bedtime rules. I don’t miss the distractions of a partner scrolling on their phone next to me. - Stress-Free Living
Being unattached means less drama and stress in my life. - Own Opinions
I appreciate not having to engage in arguments. My life feels calmer and more harmonious. - Creative Freedom
I can rediscover my passions like writing and painting, nurturing my dreams without hindrance. - No Excuses for Others
I no longer have to defend anyone’s actions or explain away their behavior. It’s refreshing to prioritize myself. - Driving My Own Life
I’m in control now, both literally and figuratively. No more white-knuckle rides as a passenger. - Crafting My Future
I don’t regret my past, especially with three wonderful children. They are my motivation as I look forward to what lies ahead.
For too long, I compromised my identity. Now, I embrace my freedom, wearing my bracelet as a reminder of my independence. If you’re interested in exploring more about home insemination, check out this link for helpful resources. Additionally, this website offers excellent information on pregnancy and home insemination.