March 16, 2023
Fox 2000 Pictures
Temple Hill Productions
Distributed by 20th Century Fox
Dear Alex Martinez,
As the visionary behind “Love, Blake,” I want to express my heartfelt gratitude. Recently, I took my sons—my 13-year-old and my openly gay nearly 11-year-old—to a sneak preview of your film. My younger son, Ethan, excitedly approached me last week after seeing an advertisement: “We absolutely have to see it! There’s finally a movie about kids like me!”
I was aware of “Love, Blake” hitting theaters and had done my research, mainly to determine if it was appropriate for Ethan, given the PG-13 rating. After some consideration, I felt he would be okay, especially since we’ve had many open discussions about identity and acceptance. The most startling detail I stumbled upon was realizing that the actors were old enough to have teenage children themselves. Yet, there I was, sitting next to my newly minted 13-year-old.
The packed theater was alive with energy, filled with teenagers and older LGBTQ+ couples. The audience reacted openly—there were gasps, laughter, and heartfelt “aww” moments throughout the film. It wasn’t merely a groundbreaking story centered on a gay teen; it carried a powerful message that resonated deeply. The theme of embracing one’s true self is incredibly relevant today, especially with the visibility of openly queer public figures. “Love, Blake” is a modern classic in high school romantic comedies.
Reflecting on your work, it’s clear why you brought this film to life. Two decades ago, I was glued to “Dawson’s Creek,” a series you directed that made history with its first on-screen kiss between two male characters. I remember the impact it had on my friends back then, just as I understand the significance of your movie for my son today.
I recognize my family exists in a somewhat progressive bubble. Ethan has been confident in his identity since childhood—he dressed as a princess for Halloween at six and attended his first Pride Parade at seven. In fourth grade, he celebrated Black History Month by dressing as Audra McDonald, and in fifth grade, he proudly displayed a rainbow flag during a class project. He’s been unabashedly himself, discovering musical legends like Liza Minnelli and Barbra Streisand along the way. It’s no wonder he adored this film; representation is essential.
Yet, there are countless kids in middle America who relate to Ethan but feel as frightened as Blake. This movie is especially vital for them. I can easily imagine a teen boy bringing his girlfriend to watch “Love, Blake” simply because she’s a fan. I hope he sees himself in Blake and finds the courage to embrace his truth.
Furthermore, “Love, Blake” speaks to straight kids, too—those who may not fully grasp the struggles their friends face while navigating their identities. It serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of friendship and the consequences of bullying. On our way home, we discussed one of the film’s most significant quotes: “I should be the one to decide when, how, and who knows my truth. That’s my story to tell!”
Thank you, Alex, for creating a film that our kids urgently need. It opens doors for families to engage in critical conversations about bullying, friendship, honesty, and authenticity. Most importantly, it delivers a crucial message for young LGBTQ+ individuals: “I am just like you.”
Warmly,
Jordan