In today’s world of endless entertainment options, parents often find themselves in the tricky position of determining what their kids should or shouldn’t watch. Making these choices can be quite complex.
My partner and I have always leaned towards caution with our children’s viewing habits. Perhaps it’s because our eldest child is quite sensitive to intense or disturbing content—sometimes even things we wouldn’t consider frightening. Or maybe it’s the age gap between our kids that complicates matters; what’s suitable for a 13-year-old is definitely not appropriate for a 5-year-old.
We also reflect on our own experiences as children, where our parents were relatively lenient about the shows and films we watched. I remember watching Jaws and Alien at a much younger age than I would ever allow my kids to see those films. While those experiences didn’t leave me traumatized, I do recall feeling as though I was exposed to material I wasn’t prepared for.
Fast forward to today, and we live in an era dominated by streaming services like Netflix and Hulu. From what I gather, many parents seem surprisingly relaxed about allowing young children to view content aimed at adults. A friend recently posed a question on social media about the age kids start watching Stranger Things because her 8-year-old mentioned that all their classmates were into it. Another friend recounted a family that watched Game of Thrones—a series notorious for its graphic violence—with their elementary school-aged children in the same room.
Determining Readiness
Determining a child’s “readiness” for certain content is subjective, but there are some general guidelines that can help. Age-based ratings, such as TV-14, R, and MA, exist for a reason. While you aren’t required to strictly adhere to them, they do offer a framework for what children might be developmentally prepared to handle.
Consider this: children under the age of 7 often struggle to distinguish between fantasy and reality. Based on my observations, some kids continue to grapple with this concept well into their later years. Witnessing violence or graphic scenes can genuinely distress them because they might not fully understand that it’s all fictional.
Such images can leave a lasting impression. I can’t be the only one who recalls vivid details of what I saw during my childhood. Those memories tend to stick with us.
I’ve encountered numerous parents who assert that their children can “handle” mature themes. But what does that really mean? Isn’t it concerning if kids aren’t responding emotionally in age-appropriate ways to what they’re viewing? Moreover, can we truly know when our children are affected by certain content? Kids often want to fit in with their peers and may hide their discomfort with mature themes to avoid being seen as childish or overly sensitive. Some parents may even take unconscious pride in their kids’ ability to “handle” adult content, which can inadvertently lead to children suppressing their true feelings about it.
Finding Your Family’s Boundaries
Ultimately, every parent must decide what is appropriate for their own children. Some, like me, are indifferent to swearing in films but draw the line at sexual content and graphic violence. Others may find sexual scenes acceptable but balk at violence, while some may view violence as harmless yet have reservations about foul language. Context, story, and execution also play critical roles in these decisions. For example, historical violence might feel different than fantasy violence, and a tasteful depiction of intimacy between a married couple can be viewed quite differently than teenagers engaging in sexual activity in a car.
A film like The King’s Speech received an R rating for a single scene featuring a few expletives. We felt comfortable letting our young kids watch it because that was the only questionable moment, and it didn’t detract from the overall narrative.
Resources for Parents
For evaluating movies before watching, I’ve found Common Sense Media to be an invaluable resource. They provide suggested age ratings from both parents and kids, along with detailed insights into potentially objectionable content. Instead of vague labels like “sexual content,” you can learn specifics, such as a scene with nudity or simulated acts. This information enables you to decide if it’s something you want your child to see.
Regardless of your personal views, it’s essential for parents to stay informed about what their kids are watching and to engage in conversations about any potentially troubling content. With so many entertainment options available, our guidance is crucial in helping prepare them for what they might encounter and shielding them from material they may not yet be ready to process.
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In summary, navigating what your child is ready to watch requires thoughtful consideration and an understanding of their developmental stage. Each family will have its own boundaries, but the key is to stay engaged and informed.
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