A few years back, my husband gifted me a stunning pair of pearl earrings for our first wedding anniversary. Housed in a plush blue velvet box, those delicate white pearls with gold posts quickly became my favorite piece of jewelry. I wear them often, but I can assure you he didn’t snag them from a pearl party streamed live on Facebook.
Yes, you read that right—pearl parties are now a thing.
For those unfamiliar with this quirky trend, pearl parties revolve around a hostess, a collection of oysters, and a very sharp knife. Typically, the audience consists mostly of women who gather to marvel at the mystery pearl revealed from the oyster. Whether in person or via a Facebook Live session, the hostess opens an oyster amidst squeals of excitement, often announcing the discovery of a rare gem. After the reveal, that pearl can be transformed into a necklace, ring, or any other piece of jewelry you fancy.
The concept of pearl parties traces back to 1987, when Jill Thompson was on vacation in Hawaii. Captivated by the thrill of opening oysters, she launched Vantel Pearls, a brand designed to bring that excitement straight to your home. Imagine watching someone crack open an oyster like it’s a shellfish-themed reality show—how could that not be a blast?
However, while pearl parties started as in-home direct sales, they’ve evolved into Facebook Live spectacles, with vendors now showcasing their finds from the comfort of their living rooms.
Curious about what this entails, I joined several live pearl parties. They were surprisingly entertaining! One vendor even sang Adele songs while enthusiastically prying open oysters. And when someone scored a double pearl, the excitement was palpable—imagine the collective gasp of “Oh my god, twiiiiiins!” as attendees envisioned matching earrings.
But before you dive headfirst into this pearl party frenzy, let’s have a little heart-to-heart. If you think you’re scoring high-quality pearls at 2 a.m. from a woman sporting a headband with Australian flags, I have some pearl-laden advice for you: you might be getting duped.
It’s a tough pill to swallow, but here’s the scoop: there are two types of pearls—freshwater and saltwater—and naturally occurring pearls are incredibly rare. Most pearls are cultivated by inserting a piece of oyster shell into a mollusk, and the pearls we see at these parties are often freshwater varieties that can be purchased wholesale for a fraction of what you’d pay at a pearl party.
Moreover, the pearls used in these events are typically inserted into oysters right before being packaged. So, if you were imagining a feast of delicious oysters alongside your pearl party adventure, think again—those oysters aren’t meant for eating.
The real kicker? When attendees fall in love with a pearl and desire matching pieces, they often pay top dollar in hopes of finding a perfect pair. Unfortunately, the valuation tools used by these pearl party companies are suspect. The so-called National Pearl Association doesn’t even exist, according to industry experts, who suggest it’s a mere fabrication.
Here’s the bottom line: pearls aren’t as pricey as you might think. That $450 you dropped during a Facebook Live bash could have bought you a stunning necklace at a local jeweler—sans the excessive screeching and nail-biting suspense.
In summary, while pearl parties can be a fun and entertaining experience, they often come with pitfalls that savvy shoppers should be aware of. If you’re curious about other home-based experiences, check out resources on infertility and home insemination at Women’s Health. Also, if you’re looking into at-home options for starting your family, consider this informative post that covers essential kits for your journey.
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