Nothing quite compares to the anxiety I feel when visiting my son’s preschool class, wondering how he will interact with his peers. On the last day of school before the winter holiday, parents were invited to join a festive celebration. I arrived just in time for story and song time, with Ms. Emma seated on a chair, book in hand, while the children gathered around her in a cozy circle.
That is, all except my son, Liam. I walked in to find him perched on a chair at the back of the group, focused and listening intently. He wasn’t in trouble, as the other teacher kindly reassured me; he simply preferred to sit apart from the action.
My initial concern wasn’t about him being reprimanded; instead, I fretted about his ability to connect with the other kids. His speech delay made me anxious that he might be unintentionally left out due to his different way of communicating. I feared that this delay was creating a barrier between him and his classmates, leaving him feeling isolated.
Seeing him seated behind everyone else felt like a poignant metaphor for his current journey with speech. I often observe him at school, church, or storytime, and it’s hard not to notice how he lags behind in expressing his wants and needs verbally.
During storytime, another child suddenly jumped up to peer out the window, with Liam eagerly following suit. I couldn’t help but feel a twinge of self-doubt—was it my responsibility to tell him to return to his seat? Why wasn’t he on the carpet with the others?
To my surprise, Ms. Emma paused her reading, glanced out the window, and beamed, “Oh, look what Liam and Zoe have discovered! Everyone needs to see this!” In that moment, all the kids rushed to the window, and there was Liam, right in the mix, smiling and excited. He even turned to me and signed the word “dog,” pointing at the playful pup outside. It was a sight worth sharing!
I let my worries cloud my view of Liam’s experience. Thanks to his teacher’s encouragement, I witnessed him transition from sitting alone to being part of the group. Perhaps he is not as different as I feared. He’s a curious and independent little boy, brimming with love and laughter, unafraid to observe or invite others to join in the fun.
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In summary, my journey with Liam has taught me that communication comes in many forms, and sometimes, stepping back allows for deeper connections.
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