Dear All,
This letter is directed at those who have cast judgment on my daughter, Lily, over the past few days. I’ve noticed the glances, the frowns, and the hushed tones that you think I can’t hear. If you have questions about why Lily is in a stroller that you deem “too small” for her, I invite you to approach me directly.
Lily has joint hypermobility syndrome. This means that when she walks for extended periods or when the weather is too warm, she experiences significant pain in her legs, ankles, and feet. As a result, she genuinely cannot walk far without needing assistance. Even when I try to carry her, she struggles because her legs lack the strength at those times. Frankly, my back also protests when I attempt to lift her for long stretches. She is currently on pain medication and anti-inflammatories to help manage her condition until she feels better.
It’s important to note that she doesn’t always rely on the stroller. There have been times when she has gone an entire year without needing it. However, after our recent holiday, she overexerted herself and required a break. In hindsight, I wish I had brought the stroller with us; it would have saved her from being carried by her dad, Tom, most of the time.
When we’re out and about, I often find myself speaking to Lily about her legs, asking her, “How do your feet feel? Is the medicine helping?” I do this not only for her but also to preemptively address the stares and whispers from those who might wonder why she is using a stroller. But honestly, I’m tired of feeling the need to justify our situation.
So, the next time you see a child in a stroller and think they look “too old” for it, I urge you not to jump to conclusions or assume the child or parent is being lazy. Keep in mind that every child’s needs are unique, and there could be a valid reason for their stroller use.
From a weary mom with a daughter who is currently unable to walk without discomfort.
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In summary, let’s foster a community of support rather than judgment. Every parent and child has their struggles, and a little compassion goes a long way.
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