This year has been a challenge, to put it mildly. My mental health has been up and down, and so has my weight. When I gained a few pounds, my confidence took a nosedive, causing a ripple effect that impacted various aspects of my life—my marriage, my job, and my social interactions. Let’s just say, it’s been quite a ride.
Can I blame the political climate? Maybe, but regardless, it is what it is. I’m eagerly anticipating a fresh start on New Year’s Day, when I’ll finally get my act together. I’m convinced that next year will bring a perfect marriage, a sunny disposition, and a thriving career. However, I can’t just ignore the past twelve months. Even if they were tough, each difficult moment has taught me valuable lessons.
You’ve probably heard the saying, “every cloud has a silver lining.” I’ve always found comfort in this phrase, as it reminds me that I can turn my pain into purpose. While I’m still on this journey, I can confidently say that I’ve discovered at least one silver lining amidst the chaos of the past year.
Despite the challenges, I’ve learned how to embrace love from others. I’ve come to understand that it’s perfectly fine to be a needy friend and to rely on those I trust most.
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I’ve always taken pride in being the strong one—the friend who fills others’ cups. I enjoyed being the optimist, the life-giver, the emotional rock. There’s something truly fulfilling about being there for someone in need. It feels better to give than to receive, right? But therein lies the issue.
Being a taker can be uncomfortable and sometimes even embarrassing. It can make us feel weak or guilty, and let’s face it, being needy is humbling. But how can we support others when we’re running on empty ourselves? How can we nurture those around us when we feel like the stump in the Giving Tree? Spoiler alert: We can’t.
Friendship is a two-way street, and sometimes the hardest thing to do is admit when we need help. It takes humility to say, “Hey, I’m struggling and could really use some support.” This year has taught me that it’s okay to lean on my friends. In fact, through acknowledging my vulnerabilities, my friendships have strengthened. True friends don’t expect you to be strong all the time—they love you for who you are, imperfections and all. They appreciate the chance to support a friend in need.
Think about it: if a friend resents you for needing help, are they truly the kind of friend you want in your life?
Here’s a little secret: being needy doesn’t last forever. Life is a series of ups and downs. We all go through phases where we require more emotional support than we can give. We’ll have days when our cups are empty and need refilling. But eventually, we’ll return to times when we can overflow with joy and support others.
There will come a day when you won’t feel like a stump anymore. You’ll feel like a full tree, ready to provide shade to a friend in need.
In summary, it’s absolutely okay to be a needy friend sometimes. If you’re feeling hesitant about reaching out, let your friends know. Give them the opportunity to love you well. The time will come when you can return the favor.
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