Ah, the holiday season. It’s a time filled with joy, lights, and yes, the infamous Santa photo op. This year, however, we’ve decided to skip the tradition of having our little ones sit on Santa’s lap.
You might be rolling your eyes, thinking I’m overreacting. But let’s take a moment to reflect on the #MeToo movement. It opened a floodgate of stories from women who have faced sexual harassment or assault, and it struck a chord with me. I’ve come to realize that it’s hard to find a woman who hasn’t been affected by this at some point in her life. The thought of my young daughters—just three and two years old—growing up in a world where they might face such issues is deeply unsettling.
A fellow parent recently shared insights on teaching consent to kids, and I couldn’t help but connect it to our holiday traditions. I felt a wave of shame wash over me as I remembered those past years when I placed my daughter on Santa’s lap, snapping photos while she squirmed to get away. I thought it was amusing, a harmless rite of passage. But was it really?
When I put my child in a stranger’s arms and insisted she stay there for a photo, I was sending a message that her discomfort didn’t matter. I don’t want her to think she has to tolerate unwanted situations for the sake of gifts or approval. Her body belongs to her, and she has every right to say no.
This year, we’ve decided against repeating this tradition. While we might still visit Santa for a quick chat or a photo, we’re also considering skipping it altogether. I want to protect my daughters from the pressures that might arise from well-meaning adults who say, “Just sit on Santa’s lap; it’ll be fun!”
Instead, we might take a different approach—perhaps writing a letter to Santa instead. Who says we can’t get creative while still teaching our kids about boundaries and consent? If you’re interested in learning more about home insemination, check out this post about the BabyMaker Home Intracervical Insemination Syringe Kit Combo. And for a comprehensive overview of pregnancy options, you can refer to this excellent resource on home insemination treatments.
In summary, it’s essential to prioritize our children’s comfort and autonomy, especially during the holiday season. Traditions can evolve, and it’s okay to rethink what’s best for our families.
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