Dear Family,

Hey there, it’s your mom and wife, Rebecca. I hope you realize just how much I adore each of you. You’re my world, and I’d move mountains for you. But we need to make some changes, and we need to do it quickly.

I can hear you asking, “What do you mean?” I know you believe I can handle everything, and most of the time, I do. But I really need your support. I can’t keep juggling it all on my own.

Recognizing Your Efforts

Let’s be honest — you all are fantastic! You pick up after the dog (most of the time without a fuss), tackle the dishes and take out the trash (often without needing a reminder), and occasionally do your own laundry. You even keep an eye on your little bro, clean up spills, prepare delicious salmon, and help out around the house in countless ways. I’m truly blessed to have you all in my life.

Still, sometimes, all those wonderful efforts just don’t cut it.

The Issue at Hand

So, what’s the issue? Here’s the thing: despite all your contributions, there are times when it feels like it’s not enough for me. I hate to say it, but it’s true. Lately, I’ve been reflecting on the mental load that women carry. It hit me that while you’re great at jumping in when asked, I wish I didn’t always have to ask. I don’t want to be the one picking up yet another spoon or yogurt cup off the end table.

I don’t want to remind you to put your shoes away, to take out the compost, or to organize your own emails. I shouldn’t have to be the one calling in your prescriptions or making grocery lists, and I certainly don’t want to be the one brewing coffee every morning.

Honestly, I’m tired of being the one who notices the mess in the kitchen or who gets asked for a glass of milk just when I finally sit down. I know you all have the ability to do more.

Seeing the Real Me

More importantly, I need you to start seeing me — the real me, not just the supermom facade. It’s time to look beyond my “I’m fine” and realize that at times, I’m not fine at all. I often feel like I’m hanging on by a thread.

Motherhood can be exhausting. Have you ever seen me truly break down? That’s right, you probably haven’t. Moms are expected to handle chaos — from sick pets to school projects — and trust me, I do. But it’s draining!

A Request for Support

So here’s my request to all of you capable beings living under my roof: The next time you need something from me, take a moment to really see me. Before you ask for that little favor, consider what’s going on in my life. Recognize that behind the supermom persona, I might just be barely holding it together.

And for heaven’s sake, if you can tackle that task on your own, please do it! Give your supermom a break.

With all my love,
Your Mom

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Summary

In this heartfelt letter, Rebecca expresses her love for her family while addressing the need for more support at home. She acknowledges their efforts but emphasizes the importance of recognizing her struggles and taking initiative. The call to action encourages family members to step up and lighten her load.

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family support in parenting