A new father recently shared his frustration on Reddit about baby clothes that poke fun at dads’ parenting abilities. It’s no secret that mothers carry the load during pregnancy and childbirth. However, once the baby arrives, parenting is a full team effort. In 2017, fathers are more engaged than ever, and that’s widely seen as a positive development. So, why do we still make fun of them?
The Reddit user, who goes by newdad123, was out shopping when he stumbled upon a trendy “Daddy-proof” onesie, which includes instructions to help fathers dress their babies without messing up. The implication? Fathers are clueless and can’t manage even the simplest tasks! This dad was not amused.
He expressed his annoyance with the ongoing stereotype that fathers are incompetent. He pointed out in his post, detailing his parenting skills, how outdated these jokes really are: “My daughter is only two weeks old and I’m already sick of this nonsense. I change diapers better than my partner, I burp her better than my partner, I secure car seats better than my partner.” (Okay, maybe his partner is better at proofreading? Just kidding!)
In 2017, it shouldn’t be shocking to think that men can handle parenting, yet many still doubt that he excels in any of these areas. Stereotypes are tough to break. He added, “I’m attentive and loving.” How could anyone argue against that? Dads are just as much parents as moms, and they care for their children deeply.
When people see this, they often dismiss it with comments like “well, it’s her baby” or “but she’s the mother.” While it is true that she is the mother, he has just as much claim to their child.
The support he received in the comments section—over 500 responses and more than 2,600 upvotes—shows that many share his sentiments. The stereotypes represented by such silly clothing are outdated.
One commenter highlighted the double-standard but also noted that there’s often a low bar set for fathers. Moms can relate to this feeling. While novelty onesies might not define parenting roles, they can be disheartening for fathers striving to be involved, especially when the attempts at humor are just plain bad.
The reality is that dads are frequently criticized for not being good parents and yet celebrated for even the smallest contributions. This creates a lose-lose situation. Parenting should not be about competing against each other. It’s about working together! While mothers may have a biological advantage in some aspects of child-rearing, fathers are equally capable—sometimes even more so—of handling essential baby care tasks.
Parenting is not a contest, and society should encourage dads to take on an active role, especially given that this wasn’t always the norm. Overcoming long-standing stereotypes is no easy feat, but the first step is to challenge the notion that “dads aren’t good parents.”
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In summary, the stereotype of the incompetent dad is outdated and harmful. Dads today are stepping up and should be recognized for their efforts rather than mocked.
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