My son wasn’t always the anxious type. I recall him being quite sensitive, but anxiety seemed to sneak in without us realizing it. Now at 16, we’ve spent years recognizing his irrational fears and less than a year pinpointing the exact nature of his anxiety, which has spiraled into something unmanageable over the last six months.
Looking back, there were signs we missed. We’ve always been an adventurous family, even spending a year traveling the country as nomads. My son thrived during those travels. But on a recent two-week road trip through several states, I noticed his anxiety rearing its head. Just six months later, the thought of leaving home for more than a couple of hours became overwhelming for him. Soon, simple outings like grocery shopping or even attending school felt impossible. Staying in his own room became a necessity, as being outside for too long triggered panic.
My son was sinking deeper into a pit of fear, and we felt helpless. We had tried counselors when his anxiety began interfering with daily activities, but the first two didn’t yield much progress. We were desperate for a solution.
One day, I reflected on the specific things that triggered his anxiety. He constantly checked expiration dates on food, sought reassurance about safety, and panicked if someone mentioned being sick. Then it struck me: “Do you think your anxiety is all about the fear of throwing up?” He paused and nodded. It became clear that he wasn’t experiencing generalized anxiety but rather a specific phobia that required a different approach. His previous counselors hadn’t caught this because he was too afraid to even say the word “vomit.”
I wish we had figured this out sooner and sought help before his anxiety escalated. Living in a small town, finding a therapist experienced in treating this specific issue was a struggle. Countless calls yielded no results. Everything we read about emetophobia—an intense fear of vomiting—indicated that it could be treated effectively with the right therapy. We were even prepared to make a five-hour trip to a city for better options when we finally found a local counselor with experience in this area.
When that counselor assured me over the phone that she could help my son, relief washed over me. There’s nothing worse than watching your child suffer without knowing how to alleviate their pain. I can’t help but wonder if we had sought assistance earlier—perhaps we could have prevented my son from becoming nearly agoraphobic. Addressing his fear before it became so overwhelming might have saved him months or even years of distress.
The good news is that he’s now making significant progress in therapy. We’re witnessing the return of the vibrant, curious boy we once knew. It feels like we’re finally seeing light at the end of the tunnel. I might even have to build a monument in honor of his counselor; I’m that grateful.
If your child is showing signs of anxiety, depression, phobias, OCD, or any other mental health concerns, please seek help sooner rather than later. Don’t wait to discover how severe the situation can become. Just because a child seems to manage their anxiety most days doesn’t mean they will continue to do so. Many mental health disorders peak during adolescence, and the complexities of life can make it increasingly challenging for them to cope.
There is no shame in seeking professional help. I wish more people would openly discuss their experiences with therapy to normalize the need for support. If you don’t find the right therapist on your first try, keep looking. A good therapist can significantly reduce your child’s suffering and may even save their life. For those interested in family planning, you might also want to check out our post on home insemination kits at Make a Mom. They offer valuable insights into navigating the journey of parenthood, along with resources on donor insemination from American Pregnancy, which is an excellent source of information.
In summary, don’t hesitate to seek therapy for your anxious child. Early intervention can lead to significant improvements and a brighter future.
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