When I discipline my older kids, it’s my 5-year-old son who ends up in tears—not because he’s the one in trouble, but because he empathizes with his brothers. On family outings, if one of us wanders off, he’s the one fretting until that person returns to the group. He even asks for extra coins to leave at gumball machines for kids who might not have any.
He’s always the first to apologize, the first to show understanding, and the first to lend a hand. Right now, he finds happiness in making others feel good, and that kind-hearted nature is truly a gift. As I think about his future, I feel hopeful about the positive impact he could have in the world. We definitely need more compassionate souls.
Yet, I can’t help but worry about him. The world can be tough on those who are tender-hearted. Living openly with such vulnerability is both a blessing and a curse. It’s a unique challenge being a mother to a child like him. His sensitivity could either empower him to uplift others or leave him vulnerable to being hurt and disillusioned. I desperately want to protect his sweetness while shielding him from experiences that could dim his light.
This reminds me of a poignant quote from one of my favorite novels, Fall on Your Knees by Ann-Marie MacDonald: “It was a moment of equal parts anxiety and awe, like the striking of a wide seam of gold. […] How to get it properly out of the earth? How not to be robbed in the meantime?” His heart is that seam of gold, a precious treasure that I must nurture until its true brilliance can shine.
I hope my gentle little boy grows into a similarly warm and generous man. However, society often devalues sensitivity in men, perceiving it as a sign of weakness—a notion that’s utterly absurd, yet change is often painfully slow. Throughout his upbringing, he may unfortunately become an easy target for those who don’t understand his nature.
How can I ensure that I’m nurturing his sensitivity in a way that fortifies him against those who might exploit it? It feels like a mission I’ve been assigned, yet I’m unsure how to execute it. I want him to ignore the voices telling him to “man up” or be different. I want him to realize that being his authentic self can cultivate a strong inner resilience, and that what may seem like a burden can actually be his greatest asset if he doesn’t let anyone change his perspective on it.
But how can I teach him these lessons when I’m still figuring it out myself? All I can do is nurture his compassionate side and hope it grows resilient enough to weather whatever storms life may bring. I’ll be there to support him when life tries to knock him down, praying that the challenges he faces are minimal.
Of course, I’ll worry like any mother does. No matter how old he gets or how much he matures, I’ll always see my sweet little boy—stacking coins on top of the gumball machine so that another child can share in his joy.
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In summary, raising a sensitive child in a world that often undervalues empathy is both a challenge and a privilege. As a mother, my role is to nurture his kindness while preparing him for the realities of life.
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