Mother’s Day is a much-anticipated occasion for many women, particularly new moms. However, it can also be a source of anxiety for many dads. What gift could possibly encapsulate the immense role a mother plays in the family? How can a dad choose something that matches the monumental task of bringing life into the world and nurturing that life with love and patience? It can feel overwhelming.
New dads often default to the traditional gifts showcased in commercials: flowers, chocolates, stuffed animals, or heart-shaped jewelry. Or perhaps they believe involving the kids in the celebration is a great idea. Breakfast in bed sounds sweet, right? Not really.
Imagine waking up to the aroma of burnt toast and the sound of children arguing over pancake toppings. Mom has to feign sleep while the kids excitedly serve breakfast, which often leads to sticky syrup spills on the comforter—cue the laundry pile! After maintaining composure through the chaos, she steps into a kitchen that looks like a disaster zone. The reality of breakfast in bed is early rising, burnt food, sticky messes, and a kitchen that needs a full clean-up. No thanks.
Then there’s the classic brunch outing. On paper, it sounds like a perfect way to celebrate: everyone dressed nicely, a lovely meal, and a few family photos to capture the moment. In reality, it often turns into a three-hour struggle: coaxing kids to dress up, battling crowds at the restaurant, and managing any meltdowns before the drinks even arrive. And let’s not forget the challenge of taking a family photo that reflects a day filled with stress rather than joy.
But here’s a little secret that many moms won’t openly share: what we genuinely desire for Mother’s Day is to not “mom” for just one day.
Yes, we adore our children and partners, but after 364 days of juggling family responsibilities, all we truly want is a break. We crave sleep—uninterrupted, glorious sleep. A luxurious nap or two would be heavenly. We dream of a day without cooking, washing dishes, or dealing with any household chaos.
So, what does “out” really mean? It means spending time at our favorite shops, indulging in pampering at a nail salon, enjoying a drink at a bar, or simply curling up with a good book. We want to roam the aisles of Target without having to think about when we need to leave.
At the end of the day, we want to return just in time to give the kids a sweet goodnight kiss, conveniently avoiding all the bedtime madness.
I surveyed 80 moms of young children to find out what they really want for Mother’s Day. The overwhelming response? Sleep. Following that were pampering experiences and a nice dinner out with their partners.
So, to all the new dads stressing over gift ideas for your amazing partner, here’s the advice: skip the flowers and traditional gifts. What moms really want is a break from the everyday grind. Ignore your instincts to get her the usual gifts, and instead, give her the sweet sanctuary of a quiet room, a long shower, or a nice evening out.
After all, tapping into our reserves of patience and positivity every day is exhausting. We absolutely need this day.
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In summary, what moms want most for Mother’s Day is a break from their daily responsibilities, allowing them to recharge and enjoy some well-deserved self-care.
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