Dear friends who still have your mothers,
Life can change in an instant, often catching us off guard. Just shy of ten months after my mother received her cancer diagnosis, she was gone. That relentless disease has a way of stealing not only the health of its victims but also the time we cherish with them. One moment, we’re happily planning for the future, and the next, we’re battling a cruel fate that leads to a heartbreaking farewell.
I never envisioned losing my mom as quickly as I did. I wasn’t prepared for the reality that swept in and took her away before I could fully comprehend the gravity of the situation. Yet, here I am, finding solace in my faith and holding onto hope.
This Mother’s Day marks my first as a mom without my own mother. Sure, I’ll receive thoughtful cards and gifts filled with love, but I can’t reciprocate. I can’t lavish her with gratitude, despite her flaws. I can’t express how profoundly she influenced my journey as a mom, wife, and woman.
So, dear friends who are fortunate enough to have your mothers, I urge you to reach out this week.
No matter your relationship, whether close or distant, take a moment to connect with her. If you share a strong bond or are on opposite sides of a disagreement, look into her eyes and remind her of her value.
Whether she has showered you with love or has struggled to express it, let her know your appreciation. Spend time together, even if it’s complicated.
If she’s been your guiding star or a lesson in what not to do, share your insights.
Remember, whether she has been the ideal mother or has faced challenges, the fact that she’s still here opens up so much potential for both of you. Call her, hug her, and envelop her in your love, even if it comes with baggage.
Reach out for reconciliation if there’s distance. Seek compromise if you feel indifferent. Make time for her if you’re caught up in life’s busyness. Show affection if you tend to hold back. Shower her with generous love, even if you think you already do.
Just last year, I could never have imagined spending Mother’s Day without my mom. Please don’t allow another day to pass without connecting with yours.
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Summary
This heartfelt message encourages friends fortunate enough to have their mothers to connect with them this Mother’s Day. It reflects on the author’s personal loss, urging appreciation for mothers and the importance of nurturing those relationships.
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