Dear Sweetheart,
As I write this, I realize the world you’re entering can be quite the mess. I’m sorry that it doesn’t always recognize women as equals. There will be many who underestimate you, simply because of the gender you were born into. The unfortunate reality is that some people will deem you “less-than” for no other reason than your sex.
I regret that you may face judgment based on your clothing choices. Your brilliance, kindness, and courage won’t matter to those who reduce you to a label because of a miniskirt or knee-high boots. Some will go so far as to hurl insults like “slut” or “whore,” all while proclaiming they’re upholding decency. It’s them who need a lesson in respect. Remember, darling, don’t ever let them dictate what makes you feel confident and fabulous.
I’m also sorry that your journey will require proving your intelligence. Sadly, some believe that possessing a vagina somehow diminishes your intellect. You could present a stellar argument or thoughtful insight, only to be dismissed as “too sensitive” or “too emotional.” It’s disheartening, but don’t let their ignorance silence you. Keep advocating for yourself and others.
I’m sorry to say that your brother may have an easier path ahead simply because he’s male. If you both land the same job at the same company, it’s likely he’ll earn more, despite your equal contributions. You may find yourself overlooked for promotions, while he receives recognition for work you’ve both done. Life isn’t fair, but know that you must stand tall and fight for what you deserve.
It breaks my heart that I’ve taught you that expressing emotions is okay, yet some may label you as weak for it. I regret that society may judge you for a natural process like menstruation, thinking it affects your capabilities. Don’t ever let anyone make you feel ashamed of your body or your experiences.
Should you choose to have children, I’m sorry that some will criticize your decision to work outside the home, believing you’re neglecting your family. Conversely, if you decide to stay home, they might think you’re taking the easy route and not working as hard as your spouse. The choice is yours to make, my dear. Discover what ignites your passion, whether it involves children or career, and pursue that wholeheartedly.
I apologize for the lack of respect you may face in a world that doesn’t always reflect the love and support you have within our family. I don’t mean to paint a gloomy picture, but I want you to be prepared. There is hope, and change is happening. Many of us are striving for a brighter future for you. We are making calls, sending emails, attending protests, and using social media to amplify our voices. We are standing up for reproductive rights and equal pay, while challenging victim-blaming narratives.
The path for women can be tough, filled with obstacles and ignorance. But please don’t lose hope. We are advocating for you and for future generations. Being a woman is not a burden; it is something to be celebrated. We are powerful, intelligent, and brave, and remember that you are too.
So, give it your all, and never back down.
With all my love,
[Your Name]