After a delightful evening of wine and Caesar salad at our go-to restaurant, my friend Sarah of nearly three decades said, “I feel like a girl again.” As we walked back to our cars, our laughter still ringing in the air, I realized just how much we cherish these moments together. We always bring flowers for each other, share endless laughs, and often say, “We should do this more often.” Yet, the truth is, we rarely do. This has to change, and I’m determined to make it happen.
I’m not suggesting we need to meet weekly to vent over nachos and margaritas (though that would be pretty fantastic). My point is, if our time together brings us such joy and rejuvenation, why not prioritize it? I’m tired of feeling overwhelmed and too exhausted to plan regular girls’ nights. There are days when my conversations are limited to my family and my own thoughts. While I adore my family and value solo reflection, I can’t help but feel my brain cells dwindling when my most pressing discussions revolve around dinner table etiquette or the best way to make slime.
Regular girls’ nights can work wonders for our mental health. We deserve that! Yes, it’s a bit of an ordeal to put on some lipstick and real pants after a long day. We’re all juggling busy schedules, and often, the allure of curling up with Netflix (sans bra) or snuggling with our kids can be overwhelming. However, friendships are critical for our well-being. They’re known to enhance longevity and reduce stress. Who wouldn’t want to extend their life by enjoying a relaxing evening with friends? This is the ideal reason to set aside the “I’m too busy” excuse for just a night. Surely, we can carve out some time for ourselves and each other at least once a month.
Connecting with fellow moms who understand our struggles is vital. It’s too easy to bottle up our challenges, fearing interruptions from kids or not having the space to talk. I know I’ve been guilty of this myself. Yet, when I invest in my friendships, I always feel validated, heard, and uplifted. My best friends remind me that I’m not alone.
Having girl time as a mom has become more essential than ever. While our nights out may be fewer since having children, they feel even more special. We gather for entirely different reasons now, appreciating each other at new stages in our lives. The temptation to stay in with our kids is strong, and often, friendships take a backseat after starting families. This is understandable, and true friends will patiently wait but also encourage us to invest in ourselves.
A night out can serve as a reminder that while motherhood is our favorite role, it’s not our only identity. These women are in our lives for a reason. Like all relationships, I must dedicate more time and energy to my friendships because one day, it might just be us reminiscing on the porch of a nursing home. I definitely don’t want to look at Sarah and say, “We should’ve treated ourselves better when we were younger. What I wouldn’t give for a plate of nachos and a margarita right now.” Instead, I hope to share, “I’m so grateful we made time for our friendship despite everything life threw at us; we had a blast, and you helped me through so much. Now, let’s go grab some nachos!”
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In summary, it’s essential to prioritize girls’ nights, as they nurture our friendships and mental well-being. Let’s commit to making time for these vital connections and enjoy the joy they bring into our lives.
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