You’d think that with the wealth of resources available—books, blogs, and countless articles dissecting the realities of motherhood—the misconceptions surrounding what it means to be a mom would be dispelled by now. Yet, astonishingly, there are still individuals who believe that being a stay-at-home parent translates to lounging around with snacks (What even is a bon bon, by the way? Is it just fancy chocolate? I might need to add that to my Costco list!). Even more bizarre is the audacity some have to express such opinions publicly, as one unfortunate commenter did on the Instagram page of fitness enthusiast Mia Grant.
Grant, who shares her journey as a fit mother on her account, is currently managing the challenges of raising twin toddlers while expecting another child. Her posts often showcase her workouts, leaving some to mistakenly assume that’s all she does. Last week, an individual with an apparent lack of understanding about parenting and social media decided to comment on her post, lamenting that they wished they could spend their days exercising with their child instead of enduring the rigors of a “real job.”
Does this commenter really believe that because Mia shares images of her exercising, that’s the entirety of her daily existence? Do they also think reality TV is, you know, real? Her page is dedicated to demonstrating how to balance fitness while raising young children—not documenting every chaotic moment of toddlerhood, like the time the kids decided to use the dog as a jungle gym.
Mia, understandably, was hurt by the comment. “Work?” she replied. “You think I don’t WORK?! You think I can just kick back with my feet up while raising twin toddlers? You think I have endless energy while growing a new baby and chasing around two little whirlwinds?!”
As a parent of twins myself, I can confirm that managing two energetic toddlers is no walk in the park. Or maybe it is—if that park happens to be experiencing a tornado and you forgot the picnic basket. After working until my kids were four, I can tell you that unless you’re laboring on an oil rig or in a high-stress job, nothing compares to the challenge of raising kids, which often feels like a full-time job on steroids. Honestly, showing up to work felt like a vacation—full meals, adult conversations, and the satisfaction of completing tasks? Pure bliss.
Mia further elaborated on her daily life: “Just to clarify, I manage to exercise for about 20-30 minutes a day, often interrupted by fetching toys, preparing snacks, breaking up fights, and sometimes stopping altogether because it’s just one of those days! My time is filled with changing diapers, dealing with tantrums, and trying to get my kids to nap while making meals that end up on the floor untouched.” Trust me, this all happens well before 9 AM.
Mia has received an outpouring of support from followers who recognize the hard work she puts in daily. For context, many of her workout photos feature her actively engaging with her children, proving that prioritizing health does not mean neglecting them. Motherhood is about sacrifices, but that doesn’t mean mothers should feel like martyrs.
So, let’s all agree to stop being harsh to strangers online. We’re all navigating this parenting journey together, and kindness goes a long way.
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Summary
Motherhood is a full-time job that requires immense effort, and misconceptions about stay-at-home parenting still persist. Mia Grant, a fitness enthusiast, faced criticism for sharing her workouts, which led to a discussion about the realities of raising children. Her experiences highlight the challenges parents face daily, and the importance of recognizing the hard work that goes into parenting.
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