It’s a well-known fact that boys are drawn to trucks, trains, race cars, and dinosaurs. However, as a proud mother of four boys, I can confidently say they also have a fondness for dolls, dollhouses, dress-up outfits, and kitchen playsets. At the end of the day, kids just want to play, and they’re happiest when surrounded by toys—until someone tells them otherwise. By labeling toys as “for boys” or “for girls,” we inadvertently limit our children’s interests, and frankly, that’s nonsense.
For a considerable time, my youngest was infatuated with My Little Pony. We cherished the joy that lit up his face when he talked about his favorite characters, regardless of gender. He’d wrap himself in the My Little Pony blanket lovingly crafted by his grandma, snuggle up with the plush Applejack he received for Christmas, watch his favorite episodes repeatedly, and spend hours playing with his pony figurines. Each night at bedtime, he’d eagerly request us to read his collection of My Little Pony storybooks.
The cherry on top was the gift his uncle gave him for his fourth birthday: a pair of sparkly purple Crocs adorned with—you guessed it—My Little Ponies. He strutted around proudly in those shoes at the grocery store and the library, basking in the smiles and compliments he received. The only drawback was that those shoes didn’t quite go with most of his outfits.
However, one day, someone told him those shoes were “for girls.” Suddenly, the compliments meant nothing. Just like that, his love for everything Pony-related vanished. He’s nearly five now, but he hasn’t shown that same enthusiasm for anything else since then. That makes me genuinely sad. A single comment was enough to stifle a budding imagination.
I don’t understand why some parents restrict their boys from playing with “girl” toys or vice versa. What are they afraid of? That their child will somehow be “ruined” by playing with something deemed inappropriate? We all have cherished memories of our childhood toys, but we know they don’t dictate the course of our lives. It takes so much more than that. I mean, I used to give my Barbies disastrous haircuts, but that didn’t lead me to a career in hairstyling—thank goodness!
If engaging with toys typically associated with the opposite gender had any influence, it might just lead to a caring man who’s comfortable cooking or a woman with a knack for mechanics or archaeology. The horror! (Cue all the eye rolls here.)
When we start telling our kids they’re wrong for liking what comes naturally to them, we send a message that encourages self-doubt. Yet, simultaneously, we preach the importance of self-confidence. Moreover, we reinforce outdated stereotypes that have restricted both genders for generations. I refuse to box my children into categories based on societal expectations. I want them to embrace what makes their hearts sing, whether those interests are traditionally seen as “pink,” “blue,” or anything in between. I want my kids to grow up as happy, productive individuals. I firmly believe that nurturing their imaginations through play—regardless of the type of toys they choose—can only be beneficial.
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Summary
As a mother of boys, I embrace my sons’ diverse interests, including their love for toys typically labeled for girls. I believe that children should be free to explore and enjoy whatever toys spark their imagination, without being confined by gender norms. Encouraging them to pursue their passions fosters happiness and creativity, which is ultimately what matters most.
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