When our family of four moved from a cramped one-bedroom apartment to a spacious three-bedroom duplex, we honestly felt like we’d hit the jackpot. Triple the square footage, a yard, a patio, shiny new appliances, and storage galore—what more could we want? At that moment, I didn’t even consider the glaring fact that we only had one bathroom. After all, our youngest was still in diapers, so we were essentially just three people sharing the space.
Fast forward three years, and things have changed dramatically. Our youngest is out of diapers, and our tween has developed a penchant for taking marathon showers. Suddenly, that single bathroom has become quite the issue—an enormous one, in fact.
Isn’t it funny how there are moments when everyone in the house seems to need to use the bathroom at the exact same time? Maybe it’s something we all ate or just the timing of the day when relaxation hits. If you have multiple bathrooms, you might chuckle at the chaos. But if you’re like us and have just one toilet, and everyone recently indulged in a burrito, you’re definitely not laughing.
And don’t even get me started on the joy of dealing with a clogged toilet, whether it’s due to an overzealous digestive system or a rogue rubber duck that mysteriously made its way down the pipes.
The bathroom struggles aren’t limited to just toilet time. Getting everyone ready for the day or bedtime can turn into a logistical nightmare. Kids bumping into each other, spilling water, and turning the sink area into a toothpaste battleground makes me wish for a little separation. Throw in the desire for some privacy, and it’s a real challenge. Sure, I know that peace and quiet are luxuries when you have young children, but sometimes I yearn for just a few moments alone to use the toilet or try out that new under-eye cover-up I ordered online.
Unfortunately, I’m never granted more than a couple of minutes before someone barges in, claiming to have a bladder emergency (which often turns out to be a dramatic exaggeration). They just want some company because, heaven forbid, I’m out of sight for even five minutes.
If I could design another bathroom, it would be my personal sanctuary—a “mom-only” retreat where I could indulge in some self-care or find refuge when the kids are at each other’s throats. A place to lock the door and enjoy my Ben & Jerry’s in peace without worrying about interruptions.
That said, I’m aware that adding more bathrooms won’t magically solve all our problems. I recognize that our home is a luxury by many standards worldwide, and even having one functioning bathroom with good plumbing is a privilege. My grandfather used to share stories of growing up in New York City tenements where an entire building had to share a single bathroom!
We rent our home, so upgrading our bathroom situation would require a move, which is not on the horizon. While I may complain (and I firmly believe in the therapeutic benefits of venting), it’s our reality for now.
However, living in this modest setup has its perks. Our family is learning valuable lessons about cooperation, patience, and sharing space. My kids are beginning to understand that multiple bathrooms are not a necessity, learning to appreciate what they have. Plus, let’s be honest—we’ve all developed some impressive core strength from those bathroom waiting games, and that’s definitely not something to overlook.
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In summary, while sharing a single bathroom can lead to daily challenges and humorous moments, it has also fostered resilience and gratitude in our family. We may wish for more space, but the lessons we’re learning along the way are invaluable.
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