Dear Friend,
I see you.
Today is Mother’s Day, and it’s likely that someone is preparing breakfast for you. Perhaps they’ll even bring it to your bedside, allowing you to enjoy a moment of peace while still cozied up in bed. You might receive flowers or a piece of jewelry. And surely, there are handmade cards crafted from macaroni and construction paper awaiting you downstairs. These gestures are lovely, but I know that they won’t truly lift your spirits by the end of this special day.
What you truly yearn for is to be understood. I hope this letter serves as a reminder that your struggles are seen and acknowledged. You’re the strong matriarch, and I know you’re waiting for someone to step in and ease your burdens, even if just for a day.
I see you. Even if no one else does, know that I recognize the weight you carry. As women, we are often conditioned to juggle everything with grace while our partners tend to interpret things more straightforwardly. This can lead to misunderstandings, no matter how hard we try to keep our expectations in check. While motherhood is indeed a blessing, there’s an undeniable challenge in that our partners may never fully grasp the complexities of what we endure.
Yes, we’re told that motherhood is a gift. Yet, on certain days, you may wish you could return that gift, even if that’s as impossible as trying to fit a four-year-old back into your womb.
Perhaps your partner is a source of stress this week. You’re beyond tired, and all you long for is a nap. So much so that your body might just decide to take one in the middle of a rare day off for your partner. Instead of recognizing your need for rest, they may feel burdened by being left with all the responsibilities on their “day off.”
I notice the disparity between your roles. Your partner attends a karate lesson and is praised for their involvement, while you are criticized for expressing a desire for a moment of peace after a grueling stretch of caring for a sick child and managing endless laundry. I see the worry etched on your brow. I see how you invite your feverish child into your bed, fully aware that it will mean more laundry later. I see you making space for your partner even as you sacrifice your comfort.
Maybe your parents are adding to your frustration. Perhaps your mother is quick to criticize your parenting choices, or your father remains distant from you and your child. I see your fears, but remember, you are not defined by them. You are so much more.
Sometimes, the urge to lash out seems overwhelming. You feel the anger rising, but you don’t give in. You’ve never given in, and you won’t. Yes, you may fear that impulse, yet I also see the calm you nurture within yourself, holding back those urges.
It’s perfectly normal to feel resentment during certain moments of motherhood. It’s okay to occasionally feel frustrated with your child. Love and frustration can coexist. You’ve learned this from your own mother, and you are using that understanding to foster resilience in your child. When your child can express, “Mom, I love you so much but right now I’m really mad at you,” you are teaching her to navigate her own emotions.
I see how you carry the weight of shaping a kind, brave little person. But remember, you’re going to make mistakes—often. Your child will witness these errors. Don’t hide them; instead, teach her. Share your mistakes and turn them into lessons. Show her that growth comes from acknowledging and learning from our missteps.
You may be making a mistake right now, but it’s not what you think. You’re being too hard on yourself. Your exhaustion and past experiences may cloud your perspective, but I can see the truth: the bond you share with your child is irreplaceable. You are her anchor.
I see the pride in your eyes when you say, “My kid is amazing.” She truly is, and deep down, you know you played a significant role in that. I see you in her laughter, in her eagerness to help others, and in her joy when she completes a task.
I see your struggle. I see your dedication. I see how invested you are in raising a strong and resilient child. Yet, I also see the toll it takes on you. So, I want you to know that you are doing wonderfully. Not just your best, but enough—truly enough for her.
So, dear friend, on this Mother’s Day, my wish for you is simple: may you find the clarity to see yourself as I see you—enough. And may you be able to rest easily, knowing that you are doing great.
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Summary
This heartfelt letter acknowledges the struggles of motherhood, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the emotional toll it can take on women. It reassures mothers that their efforts are seen and appreciated, encouraging them to embrace their imperfections and the unique bond they share with their children.
Keyphrase: Mother’s Day letter to a struggling mom
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