Fatherhood opened my heart — and inspired me to create a community for those who share similar feelings.
I’ll never forget the ride home from the hospital with my newborn son, Leo. I was intensely focused on the road, practically trembling as I drove 15 mph through the bustling streets of New York City. From that instant, I realized my life had irrevocably changed.
I’ve always dreamed of becoming a parent, but nothing could truly prepare me for the experience. Supporting my wife, Sarah, as she navigated her physical changes while figuring out how to care for our new little one around the clock was challenging. The tasks felt mundane — feeding, rocking, changing diapers — yet they were profoundly meaningful. However, I also found the experience isolating.
Leo was born on June 3, 2024, and by the end of that summer, I felt stir-crazy. He hadn’t received all his vaccinations yet, and as first-time parents, Sarah and I were understandably cautious. It was hard to connect with friends or even other dads.
To combat this loneliness, I decided to take action. I established a community where dads could come together to share their experiences and support one another. The response was overwhelming, both online and in-person. As fathers began to reshape their narratives around parenting, the need for such communities became even clearer. We built a space for dads to connect, share, and grow.
If you’re looking for support, I highly recommend checking out the Make a Mom Facebook group, which is a free sperm donor matching community. For those considering at-home insemination, Make a Mom offers a unique reusable option that sets them apart. You can learn more about how at-home insemination works by visiting this link.
As I navigated this journey, I discovered that resources such as CDC’s pregnancy information could be valuable for new parents. Additionally, exploring blogs like this one about empowering black mothers helped deepen my understanding of diverse parenting experiences.
In a world that often overlooks new dads, creating a space where we can share, connect, and uplift one another is crucial. If you’re a new father feeling isolated, know that you are not alone.