As a survivor of domestic violence, I am appalled by the proposed cuts to funding for domestic violence programs.
“I’ll always be here for you,” I assured my daughter as I laid her down for the night. “I will find a way to change our situation, I promise.” This was the vow I repeated nightly, not only to her but also to myself and my son, ever since they came into my life.
Yet, this promise felt increasingly impossible as I remained ensnared in a marriage marked by abuse. I was overwhelmed by a lack of financial resources, devoid of a supportive network, and faced with the daunting legal system that seemed to work against me. I often gazed into the mirror, confronting a reflection that was unrecognizable—a person hollowed by despair and pain, marked by the physical scars of abuse. What happened to the dreams I once held for myself and my children?
I contemplated leaving, envisioning a shelter that could provide safety. But would that safety last? I feared that my husband’s legal team would seek custody, and without the means to hire a competent attorney, I felt powerless. Research had shown me that many women in my situation lose custody simply because they cannot afford representation. The thought of leaving my children behind was unthinkable, as I was determined to protect them at any cost.
Even if I managed to escape with my children, the reality of my situation felt insurmountable. With only six weeks of shelter provided, I faced an uncertain future. I couldn’t qualify for assistance while still tied to my husband’s income, leaving me with no childcare options or financial stability. The burden of debts and a diminishing savings account left me feeling trapped.
So, I stayed, prioritizing my children’s needs above my own, sacrificing my well-being for their sake. Each night, as I stood over my son’s crib, I felt the weight of my shattered life pressing down on me.
Eventually, I found an attorney who recognized my struggle and told me, “You must break free of your past to have a future.” I confided in him, “I can’t afford to leave this life.” Yet, he fought for me without any upfront payment, ultimately changing the course of our lives. He gave us a chance at a new beginning.
As I reflect on my journey, I often ask myself what set me apart from the countless other women trapped in similar situations. The only difference was the support I received. Every woman fighting for her life deserves assistance.
The looming cuts to funding for domestic violence programs are terrifying. We must stand up and voice our concerns. Everyone has the right to a life free from violence, and it’s crucial that we don’t fail those who are still suffering. This issue is fundamentally about preserving life, and I urge lawmakers to recognize the importance of these essential services.
Consider the women who struggle to be the mothers they aspire to be while also fighting for their very survival. If you or someone you know is facing domestic violence, I encourage you to visit the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence for help.
In conclusion, every woman deserves the chance to reclaim her life, and the community must rally to provide the necessary support.
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