Wisdom from Our Elders: Insights on Struggle, Joy, and Parenthood

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The elevator is cramped. It accommodates three individuals with walkers, along with two aides, provided no one is carrying bags and everyone is comfortable with close proximity. My pregnant belly, a rare sight in this setting, adds to the tightness of the space.

A quiet ride ensues as we ascend together.

“Do you know if it’s a boy or a girl?” one aide inquires.

A pregnant woman quickly adapts to such questions, as if discussing the weather.

“We’re not sure yet,” I reply with a smile.

“And what do you hope for?” she asks.

Just as I prepare to elaborate on my hopes of having a second child, one of the elderly women in the elevator, in her 90s, interjects: “Does she really have a choice? No, she doesn’t. She’ll love that baby no matter what it is. Right?”


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