In my professional career, I donned a pantsuit during pivotal moments that shaped my experiences as a woman in the legal field. I remember attending an interview with a panel of senior partners who expressed relief that I wasn’t married, implying that motherhood would disrupt my professional training. I wore my pantsuit when an older judge reminisced about the outstanding accomplishments of his male clerks while referring to his one female clerk as “adorable,” a remark that still resonates with me today.
Despite the guidelines stipulating skirts for the Virginia bar exam, I confidently chose to wear my pantsuit. In court, I faced a distressing situation when a client insisted on dismissing me due to my gender, suggesting that my emotions would hinder his defense in a serious matter. Throughout my tenure in federal service, I maintained my professional attire, even as I earned 20% less than my less experienced male colleagues.
There were moments when a high-ranking official from the previous administration implied that my career path could have been avoided had I chosen to marry well. My boss often boasted about how his wife managed their household, making comments about the lack of childcare issues he faced. Time and again, I was mistaken for roles such as the court reporter or secretary, and I was frequently asked to fetch coffee during important meetings.
As I reflect on these experiences, I am preparing to head to the library with my husband and two daughters to cast our vote for a woman who has faced similar challenges in her pursuit of leadership. We are excited to support her journey, which mirrors many of our own struggles. Whether I wear a pantsuit or not, I stand in solidarity with a community that advocates for women’s rights and empowerment.
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In summary, my journey in a pantsuit is not just a reflection of my personal experiences but also a testament to the resilience of women navigating the professional landscape. Every moment, whether challenging or uplifting, shapes our narrative in profound ways.
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