In the summer of my early childhood, I vividly recall an afternoon in July that encapsulated the essence of carefree days. Clad in my signature summer attire—a sparkling pink tutu—I would dash around the cracked plastic pool in our yard, leaping over the hose that lay haphazardly nearby. My younger sister, blissfully unadorned, splashed in the murky water, giggling as bits of grass stuck to her chin while she delighted in the chaos.
Meanwhile, my parents lounged in their vinyl folding chairs; my mother, generously applying baby oil, attended to her fuchsia-painted toes, while my father, immersed in a paperback, occasionally adjusted his mustache. I remember my father presenting me with a 17-cent container of iodized salt, explaining that if I were to sprinkle it on a sparrow’s tail, I could temporarily ground the bird and keep it as a pet. Filled with excitement, I dashed around the yard, eager to catch a bird with my tiny hands gripping the salt.
Though I never managed to capture a bird that day, I did seize a revelation: Life is composed of fleeting moments. Those moments don’t require grandeur; whether they unfold in a weed-strewn yard or a bustling amusement park, they hold value if they are infused with joy, presence, and wonder.
I recognize that for many families, summer camps or daycare are essential for their children’s care and development. However, with my schedule and financial considerations, hiring a babysitter for my three children was a more practical choice than enrolling them in a formal camp. Thus, my husband and I decided to create our own version of “Camp Free-for-All” at home, guided by “Counselor Mom” and a relaxed babysitter named Emily.
While structured camp experiences are often rich in memories, my hope is that my children also cherish the simple moments spent languidly past breakfast in my bed, digging in the yard, or crafting robots from duct tape and shoeboxes. These experiences can be just as impactful as the well-planned activities of organized camps. Throwing eggs off the deck and learning about the physics of impact, visiting the local library to explore stories of Greek mythology, constructing elaborate forts, or inventing a “cookie recipe” using cake mix and butter—all of these moments contribute to a joyful childhood.
In embracing a summer filled with unstructured creativity and spontaneous play, my children had the chance to experience the kind of magical summer I cherished in the 80s. I hope they, too, will look back fondly on their childhood, recognizing that life is a mosaic of moments, none of which need to be extraordinary to truly matter.
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In summary, my children’s summer of doing “nothing special” was actually filled with the kinds of uninhibited and imaginative experiences that foster a rich sense of creativity and joy.
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