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Avoid the Allure of the Kitten’s Gaze — It’s a Deception
by Sarah Thompson
Updated: November 19, 2020
Originally Published: July 31, 2016
Our second child has always had a deep affection for animals. At the tender age of three, she named her favorite doll “Gallop,” and over the past eight years, she has cycled through phases of fascination with horses, felines, eagles, and most recently, owls.
In contrast, our eldest daughter, while not as passionate about animals, spent her childhood incessantly asking for a family pet. Each time we visited friends with dogs or cats, both of our daughters would passionately argue on the way home that we simply had to adopt one. They insisted it was a necessity, as if their very lives depended on finding a furry companion.
For several years, we resided in rental properties that prohibited pets. When we did find places that allowed them, we always had a valid excuse to decline — transient living conditions, high pet deposits, upcoming travel plans, etc. We assured the children that once we settled somewhere without restrictions, we would consider getting a pet. Until then, their persistent pleas fell on deaf ears.
One day, we stumbled upon a video about sugar gliders. If you’re unfamiliar with these creatures, they are absolutely delightful and charming. Our children attempted to persuade us to adopt one, but after thorough research, we discovered that sugar gliders are not the ideal pets.
However, during our research, we learned that rats — yes, rats — could actually make wonderful pets. They are intelligent, social, and surprisingly endearing, if you can overlook their long tails. Plus, since they could be kept in a cage, our landlord had no objections.
Before we knew it, we found ourselves in the basement of a local rat breeder, contemplating the baby rat situation. Have you ever seen a baby rat? Utterly adorable. Our kids promised they would care for them responsibly, pledging to clean the cage weekly and ensure their food and water supplies were always stocked without reminders. So, we relented. That day, we brought home two baby rats named Cocoa and Shadow.
Did the children keep their promises of diligent care? Yes, for two weeks, before they reverted to their old habits of neglect.
The logical consequence for their lack of responsibility would typically be to rehome the pets. However, we wanted to give them a chance to redeem themselves. Plus, the breeder had us sign a contract stating we would treat the rats as beloved family members. We couldn’t just abandon them, especially since they were so sweet. So, they stayed.
Eventually, we settled into our own home, and the kids reminded us of our earlier promise. We countered with their failure to care adequately for the rats. They stepped up their game and, to our surprise, became responsible rat owners.
After a few months, their persistence led us to the Humane Society, where we went to “just look” at the kittens. We should have known better.
The kitten section at the Humane Society is a trap of cuteness, making it nearly impossible to leave empty-handed. Even my husband, who was initially against adding any pet that might shed fur, fell victim to the charm of an older black kitten. Despite my hesitation, our animal-loving child was enamored, and soon we brought a kitten home.
This kitten was promised full care from the kids, who swore they would never complain about cleaning up after it. They insisted they would sweep, vacuum, and tend to the litter box without needing reminders. All false claims, I assure you.
Once you adopt a kitten, abandoning it is not an option. Kittens are irresistibly charming, and when they gaze up at you with their big eyes and meow, it’s game over.
Thus, we created chore charts, set consequences, and frequently reminded them of their responsibilities. We found ourselves exasperated when the kitten urinated on a hiking backpack or clawed our favorite leather chairs. And each time we left town, we faced the dilemma of finding a pet sitter.
Then, in a moment of weakness, we adopted another kitten, because the Humane Society is a siren calling to your heart.
While I genuinely adore our two cats and even our rats (we’re now on our fifth and sixth, as their lifespan is brief), I wish I had known how quickly our children would tire of the responsibilities that come with pet ownership. If your child desires a pet, be aware that until they can drive themselves to the vet or adequately clean up messes, much of the burden will fall on your shoulders.
As a cat enthusiast, it’s only a minor nuisance for me. But if you’re not keen on animal care, stay firm in your resolve. Your children’s pets will ultimately become your pets, regardless of their promises to do all the work. If you prefer to avoid the chaos of pet ownership, steer clear of the Humane Society and definitely do not make eye contact with any kittens or puppies.
The allure of their cuteness is like a black hole, and once you’re in, there’s no escape.
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Summary
In conclusion, owning pets can be a delightful yet demanding experience, especially when children are involved. Promises of responsibility often fall short, leading to a greater burden for parents. If you’re not prepared for the commitment of pet ownership, it’s wise to resist the cuteness and avoid animal shelters where the temptation is strong.
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