In my twenties, the thought of aging felt like an abstract concept, as if my 40s and 50s were eons away—because they were. If I had paused to envision midlife, I might have pictured myself in stretchy polyester pants, wearing those pantyhose with extra toe support, and clutching a device around my neck to call for help should I “fall and can’t get up.” And, of course, sensible shoes galore.
Fortunately, I’m pleased to report that my pants still zip (well, they have zippers at least), and I haven’t had to resort to the emergency alert system just yet. I do, however, have newfound appreciation for a good pair of supportive hose. So while my actual experience of midlife isn’t quite the nightmare I feared at 21, I still have some enlightening, albeit somewhat disheartening, observations about this stage of life that warrant discussion.
Comfort Takes Priority in Undergarments
Let’s face it: comfort has become the foremost factor in selecting underwear. Sure, there’s still room for a racy pair in the drawer, but support is a close second. I might still embrace a bit of sass now and then, but I’ve reached a point where my spouse’s opinion about my practical underwear hardly matters. It is what it is.
The Unwanted Hair Phenomenon
No matter your original hair color, expect to find stray dark hairs popping up in unexpected places. They tend to take on a wiry, coarse texture reminiscent of… well, you know. Most commonly found on chins, these pesky hairs can also appear elsewhere, leaving no part of your body unscathed.
I’ve recently noticed one sprouting out of my neck, seemingly overnight. A male colleague even mistook it for string—awkward moment alert! And yes, he was a good-looking guy, of course, because the universe has a way of pairing awkward situations with attractive individuals.
Tip: Rearview mirrors in natural light are prime for spotting these rogue hairs—so keep a pair of tweezers handy in your glove compartment. Just remember, plucking while driving is a no-go.
The Fear of Sneeze-Pee Fusion
Let’s be blunt: a simple sneeze, cough, or hearty laugh can result in an unfortunate incident. You find yourself reflecting on all those times you chuckled at older women discreetly purchasing Poise pads. Is the sneeze-pee phenomenon some form of karmic retribution? Yes, yes it is.
Nostalgic Tunes Turn Classic Rock
It’s a harsh reality when the songs that defined your youth—those you jammed to as a teenager—fall squarely into the “classic rock” genre. I brace myself for the day a young DJ refers to anything by Pat Benatar as an “oldie.” It’s a gut punch I’m not ready for.
Despite the need for more comfortable underwear and a tweezers break, midlife is not an exercise in self-pity. I often find myself with enough energy to chase after my children, participate in a 5K, and sometimes even outpace my younger friends. Occasionally, I still catch a few glances from men—though they might just be assessing my need for help crossing the street. But let me have my dreams, okay?
Many of my friends in their 40s and 50s celebrate greater confidence and wisdom as perks of aging. It’s all about embracing who we are and no longer worrying about others’ opinions.
We all have those moments: at a red light, glancing at our reflection only to discover a long black hair sprouting from the chin, while classic rock plays in the background. Or standing in a store, our hands curiously clutching a package of cotton briefs, declaring, “These look cozy!” That’s just how it goes.
I make no apologies—these sensible shoes are incredibly comfortable.
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In conclusion, midlife presents its challenges, but it also offers moments of joy, self-acceptance, and the occasional surprise.
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