Updated: June 15, 2023
Originally Published: June 15, 2023
A few years back, I found myself in a rather shocking predicament. I vividly remember sending my partner a photo of a disaster—specifically, the chaotic aftermath of my 2-year-old’s unfortunate bathroom mishap. It all began with an unsettling noise: the sound of furniture scraping across the floor while my little one was meant to be napping.
With a knot forming in my stomach, I opened the door and silently pleaded, “Please, don’t let it be what I fear.” This wasn’t an isolated incident. The tiles had certainly seen better days. Unfortunately, my worst fears were confirmed; the scene was far worse than I had imagined.
I was momentarily paralyzed, staring at the mess that somehow involved my sweet, innocent child. What on earth was happening? I quickly gathered my cleaning supplies, donned some gloves, and prepared for battle. Meanwhile, my youngest was wailing nearby, and as I crawled around scrubbing, I felt the weight of the day crashing down on me. It was the cherry on top of an already challenging day, the proverbial iceberg to my Titanic.
In that moment, I thought, “This wasn’t part of the motherhood agreement!” Where was the fine print outlining such duties? Between singing the alphabet a thousand times and lecturing on how to cross the street safely, this must have slipped my mind.
But in truth, I did accept those terms the moment I chose to embrace motherhood. I realized that part of this journey includes tackling the less glamorous tasks—like cleaning up after toddlers. Fast forward to now, my eldest is 5 and my youngest is 3. We’ve been on an emotional roller coaster since that memorable day. There have been ups and downs, challenges that felt insurmountable. Some days, I feel like I could conquer the world; other days, I feel like I might crumble.
It’s essential to recognize that I, too, have my limits—those very human limits that remind me I am not invincible. When I mention having a hard day, it’s not a competition. I understand that everyone has their struggles, and I often think of others facing difficulties far beyond my own. Society seems to foster a culture of comparison, where we often engage in a game of who has it worse. Honestly, I find that mentality to be quite tedious.
At the end of the day, regardless of our individual challenges or victories, we are all in this together. Wouldn’t it be liberating if we encouraged one another, rather than seeking validation through comparison? I have my fair share of great days and awful days—sometimes within the same hour—and I’m not ashamed to admit it.
So here I am, metaphorically standing on a mountaintop, sending out a heartfelt “We’ve got this!”
To those caring for sick children, a salute to you!
To those blazing new trails with loved ones who have special needs, I commend your strength!
To anyone facing struggles with infertility, you have my admiration!
To all the parents juggling bedtime with a lively crew, I salute you!
To those enduring the incessant question of “When are you having kids?” I empathize!
To every parent, non-parent, young, and old, I salute you!
To anyone navigating a tough day in parenting or dealing with personal challenges, I salute you!
To those celebrating a fantastic day, congratulations—enjoy it! And to anyone who might be reading this while dealing with a toddler in the midst of a mess, I wish you the best of luck.
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In summary, we all share this complex journey of parenthood and life. Let’s embrace our challenges together and provide each other with the support we need.
Keyphrase: parenting solidarity
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