Updated: August 26, 2019
Originally Published: April 16, 2016
In my everyday life, I have a small circle of mom friends, and I use the term “close” rather loosely. While I might communicate with them a few times each month, it often feels insufficient to meet my social needs. This led me to search for a term that accurately represented my complex feelings about social interactions. Ultimately, I realized I might lean more toward being an introvert.
When I shared this insight with some acquaintances, they were skeptical, insisting that my social nature contradicted the label. However, what they don’t understand is that, despite my outgoing facade, socializing can sometimes be overwhelmingly challenging for me. There are days when being social feels like an obligation rather than a choice. Occasionally, I even retreat into silence.
If introverted doesn’t quite fit, it may surprise those in my immediate circle to hear that I also consider myself shy. It’s true; I often approach friendships with caution and don’t easily extend my trust. Like many, I carry emotional baggage, which can make it difficult for me to feel secure enough to open up. Thus, I tend to be reserved when forming new connections.
Interestingly, my online presence tells a different story. As a blogger, I maintain a public page and engage with my followers regularly—often sharing personal insights that I might not discuss with those in my real life. Throughout my blogging journey, I’ve encountered countless individuals who share similar experiences, numbering in the hundreds or even thousands.
Facebook hosts a multitude of groups catering to various interests. From the comfort of our homes, we can watch movies, start businesses, shop, and even foster friendships. For me, a closed group became a vital part of this experience.
In my case, I joined a closed group that primarily focused on blogging and writing, designed to support one another in the art of pitching and creating content for different platforms. However, this group evolved into something deeper—an invitation to connect with others who understand the unique challenges of the blogging world.
This community, comprised of both men and women, is a sanctuary where we can share our trials and triumphs as parents and writers alike. We uplift each other through the daily hurdles of life, as well as the exciting milestones. Often, we confide in one another about significant matters before discussing them with our own families—not out of secrecy, but because we feel understood and unjudged within our tribe.
It’s worth noting that, in real life, we don’t always find the same level of understanding. Who among my acquaintances would truly grasp the frustration I feel when a blog link malfunctions, or when a larger site appropriates one of my memes? For my peers in the group, these concerns are valid and relatable.
There are countless groups available for various interests—ranging from parenting and mental health to fitness and hobbies. The beauty of these online communities lies in their accessibility; one can join as many groups as they wish.
Despite the negative reputation that social media often receives, it presents an invaluable opportunity for meaningful connections in a safe and supportive environment. In my tribe, I can express my concerns about my toddler’s picky eating habits without fear of judgment. My real-life friends may not always provide the empathy I need, but my online community does.
I can turn to this group for guidance on how to share unexpected news, like a surprise pregnancy (not mine, by the way), or to celebrate a long-awaited career advancement.
While not every group operates with the same level of integrity, many thrive on shared values and mutual respect. Frequent check-ins help maintain the group’s focus and intentions, ensuring it remains a safe space.
Thus, when you hear about closed Facebook groups, remember they aren’t always about trivial matters. They can serve as sanctuaries for genuine friendships and unwavering support.
This is not a cult; it’s a safe haven where understanding flows freely. We connect on a level that fosters comfort and validation within our shared experiences.
Summary
In the age of digital connectivity, I found my tribe on Facebook—a community of like-minded individuals who understand the complexities of parenting and blogging. Through shared experiences and mutual support, we navigate the challenges of life together, forming genuine connections free from judgment.
Keyphrase: Online community for parents
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