Updated: Jan. 16, 2023
Originally Published: Jan. 6, 2023
As a parent of an only child for the past five years, I often find myself reflecting on my initial visions of parenthood. In my younger, carefree days, I always imagined having at least two children. Growing up with siblings brought both challenges and joys. Despite the occasional mishaps—like when my brother accidentally tangled my hair with an electric shoe polisher or when another nearly cost me a finger with scissors—I appreciated having siblings. Thus, I wanted my children to experience that same bond.
However, life took unexpected turns, and circumstances changed my plans. For a significant time, it appeared our son would be our sole child. Yet, as you may have noticed, times are evolving.
Now, as I transition from being a parent of an only child to potentially welcoming more, I feel compelled to make a commitment to those who are raising an only child. Here is my promise:
I commit to avoiding an air of superiority.
I won’t forget how challenging it can be to parent one child, and I’ll refrain from making condescending remarks such as “Just you wait!” or “You have no idea!” I vow not to imply that your parenting experience is any less valid because you have only one child.
I promise not to play the martyr role.
Choosing to have another child was a decision I made, and I will not project any subsequent stress onto you. If I ever falter and express envy toward your single-child experience or lament the simplicity of having just one, I will apologize.
I also pledge to keep my emotions in check around you.
I will refrain from asking when you plan to have another child or why you aren’t expanding your family. I won’t make comments about “completing” my family or suggest that you should try for a particular gender. I promise not to question whether your only child is lonely or if you worry about them being spoiled.
I vow never to assume that you are less dedicated as a parent because of your situation.
Every parent faces unique hurdles, regardless of how many children they have.
In return, I kindly ask that you don’t say, “I told you so.” Parenting is universally challenging, no matter the circumstances. Every involved and caring parent gives their all, even on days when their energy is depleted.
While we can acknowledge our shared struggles, it’s disheartening how often parenting choices lead to judgment and division. We should unite as a community, especially since we all know that our children can often feel like the real adversaries in our parenting journey.
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In summary, as I move forward in my parenting journey, I pledge to honor the challenges faced by those raising only children while committing to foster understanding and empathy within our parenting community.
Keyphrase: Commitment to Parents of Only Children
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