Dear Sir,
I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to take a moment to express my thoughts following our brief encounter at the grocery store. While standing in line with my partner, I noticed you and your daughter ahead of us. It struck me that she appeared a bit big for the shopping cart, and I observed her chewing on the seat belt—a rather unappealing habit. I also noticed her lack of verbal communication, and how you often touched her before making gestures.
These details reminded me of my son, Alex, who shared similar traits. In an effort to understand your situation better, I whispered to my partner, “Do you think that little girl is able to talk?” I felt a strong urge to connect but was hesitant about approaching you.
As the line progressed, my curiosity grew, and my partner finally encouraged me to speak with you. Summoning all my courage, I approached you near the exit and asked, “Excuse me, sir, but may I ask if your daughter talks?” I could see the surprise on your face, and I regretted my abruptness but needed to know.
“No, she doesn’t talk. Why?” you replied. I found myself sharing a bit too much, explaining how your daughter reminded me of Alex, who passed away earlier this year. I understand this was a heavy topic to bring up, especially in such an unexpected setting.
I mentioned that my partner and I have been providing iPads to nonverbal children as a communication aid. You shared that your daughter has one at school and another at home, using the same program we employed with Alex. I appreciated your kindness, especially as you expressed sympathy for my loss, despite my overwhelming need to focus on your daughter.
I want to thank you for being open to my questions and allowing me to talk about Alex without judgment. I also appreciate you sharing your daughter’s diagnosis, which I admittedly can’t spell. Your willingness to bring her out to the grocery store this weekend meant a lot to me, as it offered a small measure of healing to my heart.
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Thank you for your understanding and for letting me share a moment with you.
Warm regards,
Your Grocery Store Observer,
Megan