In the realm of parenting, discussions around bodies, modesty, and gender can often be challenging. Recently, I found myself in a situation that prompted me to break the mold of conventional conversations. I demonstrated to my 7½-year-old daughter, Zoe, how to use a tampon.
You might be taken aback or even appalled. However, I think it is crucial to explain my reasoning. Growing up, I never had the opportunity to witness my mother’s body in its natural state. I didn’t see her imperfections or the beauty of her being a woman who bore and nurtured a child. Instead, the images that shaped my understanding of womanhood were those of airbrushed models and actresses, leading me to believe that such unrealistic standards were the norm.
By allowing my daughter to see me in a more natural state, I am hoping to provide her with a more realistic perspective on body image. I want her to understand that every body is unique and beautiful in its own way. This is why, in our home, nudity is not something to be shamed or hidden. Whether I am coming out of the shower or getting dressed, I embrace this openness. If Zoe walks in while I am in the bathroom, she sees me as I am.
It was during a routine moment when she asked, “Mama, what are you doing?” and I replied, “I’m changing my tampon.” This led to a series of conversations about periods, starting with her innocent question about why some girls have a “tail” coming from their bodies. I had already explained the basics of menstruation to her, and when she playfully suggested that I should buy tampons, I realized it was time to demonstrate.
I paused, contemplating whether to wait until she was older, but I remembered my own experience. When I had my first period, I had to figure out how to use a tampon on my own, as my mother deemed me too young for such knowledge. I remember feeling embarrassed while purchasing tampons, and the confusion I faced when trying to use them for the first time. It was uncomfortable because no one had explained the process to me, and I had to learn through trial and error.
Therefore, I took the opportunity to teach Zoe about tampons. I showed her how to open the package, prepare the applicator, and insert it properly. I emphasized that this was a normal and natural process. I believe that by demystifying menstruation, we can remove the stigma surrounding it. It’s an essential part of life, and discussing it openly helps to normalize what is often seen as taboo.
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In summary, teaching my daughter about tampons was not just a practical lesson; it was about fostering a healthy relationship with her body and the natural processes it goes through. By normalizing these conversations, I hope to empower her to embrace her own body with confidence and pride.
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