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So, Your Child Isn’t Into Sports?
by Emma Collins
Updated: April 20, 2023
Originally Published: Oct. 31, 2020
So your child isn’t interested in sports, huh? Let’s get one thing straight: Not every kid is going to be a little athlete.
You might find yourself missing out on the weekends spent cheering from the bleachers, decked out in your child’s team colors. There won’t be any celebratory pizza parties at the end of the season or a shelf dedicated to a mountain of trophies in their room. Phrases like “fall ball” or “tourney” won’t be part of your weekend vocabulary, and you won’t be sharing action shots of your kid’s latest soccer game on social media to show off their skills. And guess what? That’s perfectly fine. Take a deep breath.
Yes, sports have their perks. They promote hard work, commitment, teamwork, and they encourage physical fitness. There are friendships formed, laughter shared, and unforgettable memories created. But hold on! There are actually some advantages to your kid opting out of traditional sports.
First off, let’s talk about the financial aspect. Youth sports can get pretty pricey, especially as kids grow older. Between uniforms, equipment, and travel for tournaments, the costs can skyrocket. Seriously, how do some families manage to do it? If your child isn’t playing sports, that’s money you can save for a family vacation or something else meaningful.
Then there’s the time commitment. Practices and games can eat up your entire weekend—especially if you have multiple kids. If your child isn’t into sports, you can skip the bleacher life, which means no more sweltering afternoons or freezing evenings wrapped in blankets.
And let’s not forget the overzealous parents on the sidelines. Sure, many families enjoy the camaraderie and competition, but there’s always that one dad—let’s call him Chad—who’s living out his unfulfilled dreams through his child, pushing too hard and taking the fun out of the game. By not being involved in sports, you can dodge all that drama.
Ultimately, your child will find their passion—whether it’s music, art, camping, or something entirely different. My kids dabbled in sports, but none of them fell in love with it. Now, one plays guitar, another dreams of being a comedian, and the youngest? Well, let’s just say they have a knack for breaking things. They might not be on the basketball court, but they’re still my MVPs.
If you’re a parent like me who doesn’t spend weekends on the field and your child doesn’t have a trophy wall, just relax. They’re busy discovering themselves and exploring their interests. If they haven’t found their thing yet, there’s no rush. They have plenty of time to be kids. Friendships will blossom, joy will be experienced, and lasting memories will be made. Score!
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In summary, your child’s interests may not align with sports, and that’s absolutely okay. They’ll discover their unique passion in their own time, and you don’t need to push them into traditional activities.
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