My fondest memories of school revolve around the library. The tranquil atmosphere, spaciousness, and a plethora of books—both academic and leisurely—made it my sanctuary. I excelled in reading assignments and essays when I could retreat to a study carrel, crafting my notes and drafts at my own pace, free from interruptions. However, group projects were a different story. Sitting around crowded tables, the chaos of collaboration often drained me more than it contributed to my learning. The energy spent managing personalities and dividing tasks left me fatigued and with unfinished homework.
Michael Godfrey, in an article for The Atlantic, argues that schools are increasingly favoring collaborative and interactive learning styles, which can marginalize introverted students. This shift away from solitary study environments means that many introverts may be losing access to the quiet time and space they need to thrive. Godfrey notes: “Trends in education, such as ‘collaborative learning,’ ‘project-based learning,’ and ‘flipped classrooms,’ often overlook the unique needs of introverts. While these dynamic and social activities can enliven the classroom, overemphasizing them can hinder the progress of students who think deeply and become easily fatigued by continuous social interaction.”
For introverts, the constant push for social engagement can be overwhelming. In his interviews with students at an alternative high school—designed for those who struggled in traditional settings—Godfrey found that they thrived not because their social skills improved, but because their new environment was simply quieter.
During my time as a tutor for high school students, I frequently encountered kids who struggled to focus amid a multitude of distractions. When I would sit with them at home, I was often taken aback by the chaotic atmosphere. Between parents moving about, ringing phones, and barking dogs, it was hard to concentrate. My students typically made significant progress when I suggested turning off devices and minimizing disturbances, allowing them to focus on their homework.
Large public schools often lack the tranquility that encourages introspection. The emphasis on collaborative work, with its inherent social demands, can create challenges for introverted students. This raises an interesting question: how does this relate to the narrative that schools are failing boys—where it’s claimed that students who can remain quiet (typically girls) are succeeding more than their active male counterparts? It seems possible that the shift toward group-centered learning is an effort to adapt to a more dynamic educational environment, moving away from solitary desk work—something that benefited me greatly.
Nevertheless, Godfrey acknowledges that group work can also benefit introverts: “Group activities can play a valuable role in teaching introverts. With the adoption of Common Core standards and the Internet increasingly taking on the role of classroom educators, ‘cooperative learning’ has gained traction among teachers. As noted by educator Sarah Mitchell in her piece for The Atlantic, ‘Common Core standards emphasize small-group discussions and student-led initiatives over traditional teacher-led instruction.’ This shift has merit, as studies indicate that students engaged in cooperative learning often outperform those in conventional lecture-based settings. However, cooperative learning does not need to be overly stimulating; it can include quieter components that allow for personal reflection.”
I hope that future educational environments will cater to both introverted and extroverted students, allowing my children ample opportunities to find their own spaces in the library. Just as extroverts thrive in social settings, introverts need their own time and space to learn effectively. They should be able to retreat to a carrel for as long as necessary, with the option to join group activities when they feel ready.
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In conclusion, schools must strive to create balanced environments that nurture both introverts and extroverts, ensuring that every student has the opportunity to learn in a way that suits them best.