You know that saying, “It’s what’s on the inside that counts”? Let’s take a look at what really lies within us: intestines, blood vessels, mucous membranes, brain tissue, and yes, even an appendix. Not to forget waste, gases, and acids. And let’s not overlook bones—those very structures we use to make Halloween decorations. Our bodies are more like vehicles than destinations. So, snap a photo of your favorite ride and tag your pals on social media.
So, where is your body—whether it’s a size 2, size 12, or size 22—taking you today? Maybe you’re heading out for ice cream? Enjoy every scoop! Planning to wrestle some cardio-alligator? Go for it! I’ll pass, thanks—I’d rather not risk a near-death experience trying to get fit. Just remember, if your only focus is your vehicle, you might never reach your destination.
Instead, let’s think of our bodies—be it a compact car or a massive truck—as something that needs care. Keep it fueled, change the oil regularly, and handle routine maintenance. (Yes, I’m talking about staying healthy—are you with me?) Strive to look good and feel good; there’s nothing wrong with taking pride in how you present yourself. But let’s not forget, that pride isn’t the end-all.
When we say “It’s what’s inside that counts,” what we really mean is that our bodies are secondary to what we produce. I’m referring to our creative and emotional contributions—everything we bring to the table, from heartfelt hugs to collaborative projects. The true value of a person isn’t tied to their physical appearance; it’s about how they enrich the lives of those around them.
Take that quirky classmate who made you laugh until you cried. Once they showed their emotional worth, their unique features became endearing instead of awkward. Attraction is more about these shared experiences than any superficial traits. When we connect meaningfully, our perceptions shift—“I love your sense of humor, so I like your smile,” for instance.
Ultimately, what matters is maintaining our health so we can live fully and make a difference. When we pass on, no one will stand up at our funeral and say, “Jamie weighed 140 pounds and was 5-feet-3-inches tall.” Instead, someone will share a moment that highlights our impact, saying, “I miss her so much; I’ll never forget the time she…”.
So let’s stop measuring ourselves by scales and sizes. I’m at a point in life where I’m uncertain about what tomorrow holds. I could waste my time on trivial shows or decide to focus on what truly matters. I’m done reading those affirmational pieces about body positivity; it’s time to give myself permission to forget about those numbers.
I’ll commit to exercise and eating well because I want to live an active life. But during my next walk, I’ll carry my scale with me and toss it in the trash. Instead, I’ll measure myself by how many laughs I generate or how many meaningful connections I create. Maybe I’ll even evaluate my worth by the pizza I share with friends—without counting calories.
For more on this journey, check out our article on the at-home insemination kit here. It’s essential to prioritize health and well-being, which is why I recommend exploring excellent resources like this one for pregnancy and home insemination.
Summary
Embracing the idea that our value lies in our contributions, not our physical appearance, is essential. While taking care of our health is important, it’s even more crucial to focus on meaningful connections and experiences that define us. Let’s shift our perspective from size and weight to the joy we bring to ourselves and others.
Keyphrase: body positivity and self-worth
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