As the parent of a 6-year-old son and a 1-year-old daughter, I find myself stepping into a world that is quite different from yours. My son is about to begin kindergarten, marking the start of his educational journey just as your child is about to close a significant chapter of theirs. While I may not have the experience of parenting a high school senior, I have spent the majority of my 15-year teaching career guiding seniors through this transformative time. I hope you’ll indulge me as I share some thoughts with you.
Each year, I assist students as they tackle their college essays, encouraging them to share their drafts with you. After all, you know them better than anyone else—even if they sometimes think otherwise. You understand their unique qualities and what will make them stand out in a sea of applications.
As the college application deadline approaches each November, I witness the stress they endure. I hear about the ice cream outings you’ve organized to help ease their nerves, and I see the cozy hooded sweatshirts you’ve bought emblazoned with their dream school’s name.
Every year, I listen to their plans—whether it’s pursuing work, college, military service, or travel. They often mention the choices you made and the pride in their voices is unmistakable. Though they might not always express it, the love they have for you shines through.
There are moments when the pressure becomes too much, and I see them break down in tears. But I also hear about the comfort you provide, holding them close and allowing them to feel like your little ones once again, if only for a short time.
Around March 1, senioritis tends to strike hard, and I often hear from you about keeping them on track. Though they might not appreciate my efforts in the heat of the moment, I frequently receive thank-you notes from those who once resisted my guidance. One day, your child will express their gratitude, even if it takes a few years.
I often connect with parents who are filled with emotion as they contemplate sending their child into the world. As I listen, I can’t help but think of my own son, preparing for his first steps into a larger world.
On graduation day, I tend to hide my emotions, feeling bittersweet about saying goodbye to your children. It’s a reminder of the passage of time, as another year has gone by—not just for them, but for my own kids as well.
So this year, I want to express my heartfelt appreciation to you:
Thank you for raising these remarkable young adults and trusting me with their final year of high school. Thank you for sharing a part of your heart and allowing me to play a role in their lives. I’ve learned so much from observing your parenting style, and I hope to honor that in my teaching.
As you navigate this last year of your child’s education, rest assured that I’m here to support you. I’m prepared for the stress, the tears, and the onset of senioritis. I keep a stash of tissues and chocolate in my desk—a little treat that can often work wonders. And while I know you’re just a phone call away, I want you to know that I care deeply about your children.
Being a parent of a high school senior can be overwhelming, but you are not alone in this journey. Enjoy every moment, knowing that when you look at them, you might still see traces of their younger selves—just like I see my own little ones in the eyes of your seniors. We’re all in this together, and I feel fortunate to have the opportunity to teach your child.
Warm regards,
A Dedicated 12th Grade English Teacher