Today didn’t unfold as I had envisioned. The list of tasks I “needed” to tackle remained untouched. In truth, my dear little one, you were the reason I accomplished nothing at all.
The laundry that has been steadily accumulating for days? It still sits there, overflowing from the hamper and causing me to stumble as I navigate your bedroom floor. Instead, I found joy in watching you pull every item from your drawers, trying on and discarding countless outfits until you triumphantly donned the “big blue choo-choo shirt” – proudly and, of course, inside out.
That bookshelf we ordered from Amazon last week? It remains in pieces. Instead, I joined you in the fort you built, with your Mario blanket draped between the box of bookshelf components and the TV stand, diving into stories together.
I didn’t get around to practicing your ABCs as I intended. Instead, I practiced patience, holding back my frustration as I noticed the trail of Cheerios you left scattered throughout the house, reminiscent of Hansel and Gretel – a tale we enjoyed in our blanket fort.
I didn’t manage to drive the van to Jiffy Lube for that oil change, despite the persistent warning light blinking at me. Instead, I found myself racing Hot Wheels cars across the kitchen floor with you, laughing as they startled the cat, sending her darting from the room in a huff.
The chicken in the freezer that I meant to cook? It’s still there. Instead, I played chef in your toy kitchen, relishing in your plastic sandwiches while I sipped pretend coffee.
I didn’t reach out to the maintenance guy about the dishwasher that’s been on the fritz. Instead, I engaged in a delightful conversation with you on the rock “cell phone” you handed me in the backyard, chatting about bugs as if it were the most important thing in the world.
I didn’t make it to the post office to send your Aunt’s birthday gift. Instead, I galloped around our front yard with you after lunch, pretending to be a dinosaur while you enthusiastically called out “Sharp Tooth!” (Oh, and we watched The Land Before Time together, too).
I didn’t lie down for the nap I desperately needed. Instead, I cradled you to sleep during your nap time because you were anxious about that imaginary Sharp Tooth lurking in your closet. (Maybe that dinosaur game wasn’t the best idea after all.)
I didn’t tackle the bathrooms, or even think about the microwave (let’s be honest, the bathrooms were never really on my agenda). The piles of photos on my dresser? Still untouched, waiting for me to sort through those memories.
But what I did do was create new memories with you. I didn’t fit in a workout today, but I squeezed you tight, relishing the way you hugged me back. My arms didn’t carry in the bags of groceries as I had planned, leaving the fridge nearly bare. Instead, they carried you, and my heart overflowed with love.
I didn’t even manage to take a shower, but I took a moment. A moment to watch you stack your blocks by color, singing “Everybody Wants to Be a Cat” while you played after seeing The Aristocats for the first time last night. I listened as you rambled on about your minion Happy Meal toy and your love for bananas. You asked why the kitty doesn’t wear socks or eat bananas and why everyone wants to be a cat.
In those moments, I embraced your smallness, your charm, your delightful mischief, and your boundless imagination. I cherished the fleeting fragments of your childhood, knowing they won’t last forever.
Looking around our home, I see the dishes piled precariously by the sink, laundry scattered across the floor, remnants of food splattered in the microwave, and an untouched to-do list on the whiteboard. Then I look at you – the joy illuminating your face, the laughter shining in your eyes, and the vibrant life radiating from your tiny being. A being that is growing less tiny with each passing day, yet still inviting me into your enchanting world.
And I realize: No, my little one, thanks to you, I didn’t accomplish anything today. Today, because of you, I did everything.
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Summary
In a heartfelt reflection, a parent recounts a day that strayed from the mundane to the magical, highlighting the joy of prioritizing moments with their child over chores and responsibilities. The narrative captures the beauty of parenthood, where time spent with a child, filled with laughter and imagination, outweighs the to-do lists that often dominate adult life.
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