You first crossed paths at the playground, yoga class, or perhaps a local parenting support group. Amidst the chatter of sanctimonious parents debating everything from formula to cloth diapers, your eyes met hers. In that fleeting moment, you both exchanged a knowing roll of the eyes.
In the whirlwind of motherhood, your MBFF (Mom Best Friend Forever) is your rock, always ready to help out or share a laugh. Here are 11 telltale signs that you’ve found her:
- You’re Both Comfortable with Chaos
Your friend has seen your home in its messiest state, and she doesn’t bat an eye. You don’t bother cleaning for her, often greeting her in a wrinkled shirt and sans makeup. She knows that if she wants to sit, she might have to rearrange the laundry—sometimes even sitting on it if it’s clean. That’s true friendship. - Pet Names Galore
She’s adopted the quirky nicknames you use for your kids without missing a beat. When she casually asks how “Princess Potty Pants” is doing, it feels perfectly normal. - Parenting is a Team Sport
You both can discipline each other’s kids without a second thought. Whether it’s telling Princess Potty Pants to stop climbing the shelves at Target or reminding her child to stop spitting at the dog, you both step in as needed. - You’re Each Other’s Cheerleader
When a judgmental parent criticizes your child, you know exactly who to call. You can cry to her about how the “Wicked Witch of the West” called your little angel a monster, and she’ll remind you that it’s not you—it’s just that the other mom is a total troll. - Defender of the Realm
You can count on her to have your back. If the “Wicked Witch” had crossed paths with your MBFF, you know she would’ve put her in her place. Whether it’s a fierce glare or a dramatic showdown, you’re both protected from the mom-shaming that can happen in the wild world of parenting. - Vent Session Extraordinaire
She’s the perfect sounding board for your frustrations, whether it’s about your partner’s annoying habits or your family dynamics. You both understand that sometimes you just need someone to listen while you express your worries about your child’s “sociopathic tendencies.” - Always Picking Up the Slack
Forgot to bake cookies for the school meeting? She’s on it. Did she forget the diapers? You’ve got backup. She knows your coffee order by heart, even more so than your spouse. - Cycle Syncing
Your monthly cycles are in sync, meaning you both end up suffering through cramps together. You’ve dissected every period-related topic, from tampons to reusable pads. - Germ Quarantine? What’s That?
If her kids are sick, you know your kids will be soon, so you might as well step in and help her out. Shared germs are no biggie when you’re in this together. - Cleaning is a Group Activity
There’s no hiding the messes. You’ve seen her house in disarray, and she’s seen yours. You’ve helped her scrub her kitchen, and she’s tackled your laundry. True friendship means tackling each other’s messes without hesitation. - Sister Wives Sound Tempting
You often joke about how much easier life would be if you could just cohabitate, share childcare, and split chores—minus the sharing of partners, of course. You’ve probably even discussed the idea of a compound!
This article was originally published on July 20, 2015.
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In summary, finding your MBFF means embracing the beautiful chaos of parenting together. From sharing snacks to tackling tantrums, it’s a bond like no other that makes motherhood just a little bit easier.
Keyphrase: Mom Best Friend Forever
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