He sobbed. In our home, loud voices are a rarity, and I felt like the worst parent imaginable. After the tears were dried and he was settled down with his breakfast, I took a moment to collect myself. “I just want to keep you safe, sweetheart,” I murmured as he picked at his waffle.
Deep down, I know I can’t wrap my son in cotton wool and protect him from every wobbly chair or unexpected fall. I can, however, guide him away from some missteps and mishaps—if only he would heed my warnings.
But therein lies the challenge. Kids don’t always listen—sometimes not at all, and certainly not when they reach their teenage years. Injuries will occur. Noses, fingers, and even hearts can break. So how do I instill in him the wisdom to make the right choices when it truly matters? How do I ensure he holds my hand while navigating the slippery steps? How do I stop him from speeding down icy roads just after getting his license?
Dressing him for preschool, I said, “Keep your hands back, darling,” as I zipped up his coat. He didn’t listen. My timing was off, and the zipper snagged his finger—cue more tears and a rush of mom guilt. I kissed his cheek, his tears, and his hurt finger, trying to soothe both him and myself.
“Mommy, this morning is tough,” he said, snuggling into my lap.
“It’s just a little scratch,” I reassured him, genuinely hoping for a future filled with only minor bumps.
There’s a quote by Elizabeth Stone about parenthood that resonates deeply: “It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.” That rings true and then some. It’s like your heart is out there, traversing a busy highway in a game of Frogger, and you have no control. All you can do is offer your voice and set a good example. “Please listen to me,” you plead, knowing full well that sometimes, they simply won’t.
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In summary, being a parent means accepting that you can’t protect your child from every scrape and bruise. It’s a delicate balance of guiding them while allowing them to learn their own lessons.
Keyphrase: Parenting and Protecting Children
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